Jimmyson Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 This is rather complicated but I will try and explain it to the best of my ability I could do with some advice. My friend has a kid with this girl and both still live in the same house together, however he is always calling her fat (which she isn't she's a size 8) and all the other names under the sun and is rarely in the house together, she can't get rid of him out the house because of the kid, if she gets social services or police involved the kid will get taken of her because he lives there and refuses to go, she has quite blankly told me she hates him and does not see him as her boyfriend and he knows this but he is the type of lad who puts on a front and just says he loves her to me and the rest of his pals when he gets what he wants of her (i.e money) and then slags her off the next day I've told him to stop but it really isn't my business in honesty I understand that. A few weeks ago when we was out me and my mate she inboxed me on inbox on my iPhone (facebook inbox) I got the alert asking where we are, we got talking and had a conversation and I told her I'm always there for her and she said she really appreciates it and wants someone she can love and even texted me saying "You are a lovely lad it's a pity (my mate) can't be the same xxx" now I know it's only texts but at first she never put a 'x' but now she always puts 3 or 4 to me - do you think this means anything? I was there about a week ago and she was in her dressing gown and she knew fine well I could clearly see her cleavage and she put her hands on it and was like it's a pain in the ass and giggled and smiled at me, she knew I was thinking of her, now without sounding like a bigot or a boaster I'm quite well endowed and was wearing jeans and you could easily the bulge and I could see her keep on looking as well. Another incident was my legs was out sitting on the chair next to the sitroom door and she went to pick something up beside the door for the baby and touched my leg and looked at me while (my mate) is on the mac. She is not with him and is single, do you think she likes me and do you think it would be wrong for me to go with her? How do I pursue this to take this to the next level? Thank you.
DontWorryBHappy Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 This will not end well. If your friend figures out that you're thinking of getting with her, he's going to punch you out. And she's already in a messy situation with a kid... don't know why you'd want to get involved with that whatsoever. But you'll probably still try to get with her, so work on your right hook.
Author Jimmyson Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 This will not end well. If your friend figures out that you're thinking of getting with her, he's going to punch you out. And she's already in a messy situation with a kid... don't know why you'd want to get involved with that whatsoever. But you'll probably still try to get with her, so work on your right hook. Well I'd rather not get into violence but the kids father I could easily kick the s##t out of, he knows this. I want to get involved with her... she is a nice lass and I feel we click though.
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