beachgirll2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 I hope I made the right decision. My bf has a 7 year old son from an ex he never married. It was a bad breakup and he constantly talked about it. But it has gotton to the point where I just can't take it. I know more about her than I should....how her and her b/f just bought a house, how she is pregnant now, what she does for a living, and last night we were looking at a women's pic online in an article and he said the women looked like her. Last week he said how his son said when he went to pick him up how when he is at my house he doesn't get enough time with my bf and then another time he said he didn't want to come here bc of that. My bf tried to make me feel better by saying it was his ex telling his son this. With us all he says is how he hopes i don't get pregnant again or how moving in with me would be too expensive bc my rent is too high. All this after i had a miscarriage in feb. So i sent him an email saying all this and breaking it off. i know there has to be someone better out there.
Pfiend101 Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Don't have much to comment. I think it was low of you to break up with someone you've been in a relationship with over an email. Being on the receiving end of a text break up it is a very painful way. It's as if the person didn't even care to begin with.
SomewhatExperienced Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Don't have much to comment. I think it was low of you to break up with someone you've been in a relationship with over an email. Being on the receiving end of a text break up it is a very painful way. It's as if the person didn't even care to begin with. I agree with the above statement. You should still speak to him in person. But it does sounds like your relationship was less than healthy. The guy seems as if he never fully dealt with his feeling around his last relationship and you shouldn't ever get into a relationship with someone until they have. His son certainly makes things more difficult and you don't want to be the one to hinder a relationship with his son. On top of it he's gotten two girlfriends pregnant (though it does take two to tango, so strap up in the future). Overall, sounds like a good decision, just man up (sorry I used that term) and go talk to him in person. I would never break up with ANY girlfriend over text or email and I'd expect the same courtesy back.
Author beachgirll2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Author Posted May 13, 2011 i think sending the email was a lot less hurtful than his constant comments about his ex while i was going through losing the baby. but everyone is entitled to their opinion. besides the text did i do the right thing? he shouldn't have been making all those comments constantly right??? it just seems like he had no plans for our future and that is sad.
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 I agree with your decision, but not the way you carried it out. But oh well, what's done is done. I'm sure you will find someone better
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