ridinbikes247 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 I have been married for 4 years, together for 6 years. We are both 26 and have a 3 year old boy. Our sex life is very sucky. The past 6 months, have been really bad. We have sex maybe once every three months. I have brung this up to my wife and she says shes not in the mood and its hard with a kid. I have thrown out the idea of her having an affair and she just says "what ever I want to think". Well last time we had sex was valentines day. About 45 minutes ago we put the kid in the bath and she came in the room and said the usual "lets get this over with and we get on the bed. As I stick it in she makes this comment " "does it feel new ?"......... We joke around alot, but just a few days ago I was acussing her of having an affair because our sex life sucks. This just ruined it for me and I pulled out and told her that was a dumb comment and she said im just childish
nyc_guy2003 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 That was actually pretty funny. I think the "let's get it over with" comment was much worse -- I wouldn't even have tried if my wife said that. If she is not fully excited about the prospect of screwing then I don't want to screw.
VicJay79 Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 RidinBikes, I am sorry your relationship isn't going as well. The fact you guys aren't physical is actually a pretty big deal with some larger underlying issues. I suggest you guys go to couples counseling together. I am serious! Things like this don't get better and often times get worse. I have been married for 4 years, together for 6 years. We are both 26 and have a 3 year old boy. Our sex life is very sucky. The past 6 months, have been really bad. We have sex maybe once every three months. I have brung this up to my wife and she says shes not in the mood and its hard with a kid. I have thrown out the idea of her having an affair and she just says "what ever I want to think". Well last time we had sex was valentines day. About 45 minutes ago we put the kid in the bath and she came in the room and said the usual "lets get this over with and we get on the bed. As I stick it in she makes this comment " "does it feel new ?"......... We joke around alot, but just a few days ago I was acussing her of having an affair because our sex life sucks. This just ruined it for me and I pulled out and told her that was a dumb comment and she said im just childish
Feelin Frisky Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 RidinBikes, I am sorry your relationship isn't going as well. The fact you guys aren't physical is actually a pretty big deal with some larger underlying issues. I suggest you guys go to couples counseling together. I am serious! Things like this don't get better and often times get worse. This^. These things don't usually get better and just get worse. But both parties have to want to change for the better. If one of the other is in denial and chooses o take the stance that there is absolutely nothing about them they can improve, it's a lost cause. It's time for a talk at least. If she resists or refuses the couples therapy, perhaps you should tell her what is acceptable to you going forward and what is not.
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