Rose1977 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 No wonder you don't like anything I say !! I hope you rise again soon !! (honestly) not being sarcastic I am not battered and will never be ! I am for sure not worn ! Heartbreak is a part of life that makes you stronger ! Weft and torn, well I don't know but that sure sounds bad ! If this is all about a man that is sad ! I have been heartbroken before, but rest of this sounds really bad and I for one LOVE myself way to much to fall into these other states. Not trying to be mean like you do, but what a mess of a statement this is !! except the rise again part ! Mark my words, if you are real, and if you are as cruel and callous as you are here IRL, you have a lot of all of the above waiting in store for you. FTR, no one who has ever worked with special needs children uses the word "retarded" to describe anything. I'm out, you're not here for help, you're here to ruffle feathers along with your multiple personality Daisy (wayyyy too many similarities - the ADD reference, NY, the grandiose writing style, the obvious obsession with the wife). You are distracting from posters who truly need help and advice with this nonsense.
BB07 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Mark my words, if you are real, and if you are as cruel and callous as you are here IRL, you have a lot of all of the above waiting in store for you. FTR, no one who has ever worked with special needs children uses the word "retarded" to describe anything. I'm out, you're not here for help, you're here to ruffle feathers along with your multiple personality Daisy (wayyyy too many similarities - the ADD reference, NY, the grandiose writing style, the obvious obsession with the wife). You are distracting from posters who truly need help and advice with this nonsense. YES>>>>>>>YES and YES again to everything Rose said. As the parent of a special needs daughter, NO ONE that works with special needs and I mean no one would ever allow those words to come out of their mouth and if they did.........well I might get more than a little ape shyte crazy on them.
daisy love Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Are you ppl crazy?? I would NEVER settle for porn and internet chat!! I wouldn't call a kid retarded either!! That's sick!! I don't know who this person is, but they are NOT me!! BW doesn't have a medical condition either. She's just a stuck up b*tch that loves his wallet.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Are you ppl crazy?? I would NEVER settle for porn and internet chat!! I wouldn't call a kid retarded either!! That's sick!! I don't know who this person is, but they are NOT me!! : Well, maybe you two should become acquainted, then. You have a lot in common (or should I say "allot" to communicate with you better?), not the least of which is your decimation of the English language, including generous usage of caps and exclamation points!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The married guys you two are boning seem to like the exact same type of young (very, very young) women, too.
jthorne Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) Well, I hope you two (or one) have a nice life. Oh nevermind... Why bother. Waste of time. Just like the 30 seconds I took to write this post that I'll never get back. Edited May 17, 2011 by jthorne
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Obviously you have never read any of my posts.. I am involved in an EA, that means no sex !! And you can believe what you want but I did personal train special needs clients and every SINGLE one of them was nicer than the people in here.. BTW I have heard them call each other retard, for some people it's just a word ! To me all it really means is your acting silly. I know it offends some people but so does a lot of other things. I have a ton of IRL friends. honestly sometime to many to keep up with.. Obviously my Writting style must be someone harsh or doesn't transfer the same way as it does in person. But I have no interest in changing it. Missunderstood, story of my life ! MM tells me i am miss understood due to the fact I am outspoken, he is as well. And he says more people should be..I think he has a point !
jthorne Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I have a ton of IRL friends. honestly sometime to many to keep up with.. Perhaps they are better equipped to offer you "support" than LS is then.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Obviously you have never read any of my posts.. I am involved in an EA, that means no sex !! Cyber and phone sex are ... sex. Obviously my Writting style must be someone harsh or doesn't transfer the same way as it does in person. But I have no interest in changing it. Not even if your "Writting style" represents you as a person with limited literacy? Missunderstood, story of my life ! MM tells me i am miss understood due to the fact I am outspoken, he is as well. And he says more people should be..I think he has a point ! That is nonsensical. You are outspoken - therefore, everyone who "hears" you can clearly get your point. Unless you are misusing the English language so grievously that you've rendered yourself unintelligible. So, what was it again that you were seeking help for here?
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I have been a dean's list student for 4 years. I am graduating with a Bachelor's in Science in June (done with coursework) Sick of writting in a proper science way, could care less if I sound kinda dumb in here. Not a good speller that I know.. who cares !! Just expressing myself in a different way ! Sick of boring science talk So deal with it or don't read it
waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I have been a dean's list student for 4 years. I am graduating with a Bachelor's in Science in June (done with coursework) Sick of writting in a proper science way, could care less if I sound kinda dumb in here. Not a good speller that I know.. who cares !! Just expressing myself in a different way ! Sick of boring science talk So deal with it or don't read it I was Dean's List for 4 years and I also spell like crap. People are expressing themselves here also. You say you are 37 I believe? Not old, not young. I was so thick-headed about how 'different' my affair was. I'm not sure anyone could tell me much that didn't make me defensive also. Perhaps somethings that were said to me over time did help me see the dead-end of it. I wrote on forums where I would be told it was a dead-end, probably because I needed to hear/read it over time to believe my situation wasn't different. I defended it at the time. I have 'come at you' at bit. I apologize for that. Things aren't in your favor here. Perhaps I just want anyone not to put that on another or themselves too much. There are real, single great men out there. Really believe in yourself and them, and how many people you could have mutual interests with. No matter how it may have sounded before, you are a very cute girl. Most men I know are more comfortable with cute than exotic. You would be fine to leave that door open for one. Go for one who really shares EVERYTHING with you. Do this, if you love yourself like you say you do.
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Cyber and phone sex are ... sex. I do not consider Cyber sex or phone sex real sex.. Is it sexual and and "wrong" for him to be doing as a MM, Yes.. Is it intimate and has it made us closer, Yes ! But I doubt most people would consider either cyber, sexting or phone sex as Real sex !
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 If my boyfriend or husband were spending hours sexting with some clueless bimbo or frolicking with her in the flesh, it would make no difference to me - he'd be out on his rump equally quickly either way. I guess the former technique doesn't spread the nasty bugs that he'd be catching with the flesh version of sex, but on an emotional level - same.
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Posted May 18, 2011 Well, I totally agree that I would be gone if a husband or boyfriend did that to me !! I would be gone gone gone !!!! And yes, people can say if he cheat on her he will cheat on you.. I don't really believe that. I am very faithful now that I know what I want, can't say I was when I was young. Every relationship is different. My Dad had EA with Stepmom, left Mom and has been with Stepmom for over 24 years. He never cheated again !! SOMETIMES people just realize they are not with the right person and need something else !
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Every relationship is different. My Dad had EA with Stepmom, left Mom and has been with Stepmom for over 24 years. He never cheated again !! How did that work for your mom? How did you feel about that when you were a kid? Whoops, I forgot : !! SOMETIMES people just realize they are not with the right person and need something else ! Usually, that's when people break up. In the case of the married guy you are messing around with - that's when he got married. I wish you would answer my 2 questions: 1) Do you think the fact that a man got married and immediately started an affair that includes defaming his brand new wife and sharing her intimate secrets reveals something ... unsavory ... about his character? I sure do. 2) What are you here on LoveShack for? What kind of "better luck" are you hoping for here than on the last forum? Why do you think that you rub almost everybody the wrong way (unless you are just here for the troll lolz, in which case I must say you're successful)!!
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Posted May 18, 2011 It worked out GREAT for my mom.. She has been remarried to my lovely StepDad for about 23 years. He is a much better match for her. I love both of my Step parents very very much and could not imagine life with out them. Doesn't matter how I felt about it at the time (it was an adjustment) because MM does not have any kids. No, I do not see it as a character flaw. Just someone who married the wrong person and realized it a lot sooner than most. Maybe he just now know what he needs. He was a busy student when he meet her and married her. I know for a fact you are kind of in a non self discovery mode when you are a student especially when you work full-time as well.. Why am I on here.. to vent and express myself.. Why do I disagree with most of everyone on here do I think. Because most people on her probably have a lot of issues and don't have anyone IRL to talk to !! Not all but most or at least a lot..
bentnotbroken Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 It worked out GREAT for my mom.. She has been remarried to my lovely StepDad for about 23 years. He is a much better match for her. I love both of my Step parents very very much and could not imagine life with out them. Doesn't matter how I felt about it at the time (it was an adjustment) because MM does not have any kids. No, I do not see it as a character flaw. Just someone who married the wrong person and realized it a lot sooner than most. Maybe he just now know what he needs. He was a busy student when he meet her and married her. I know for a fact you are kind of in a non self discovery mode when you are a student especially when you work full-time as well.. Why am I on here.. to vent and express myself.. Why do I disagree with most of everyone on here do I think. Because most people on her probably have a lot of issues and don't have anyone IRL to talk to !! Not all but most or at least a lot.. I must admit tonight has provided some of the best comic relief since....Oh I don't know....yesterday when I visited my kid's HS. :lmao:
leftfordead2 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I like to use exclamation marks!!! They make me sound smart!! In addition it makes it seems like I'm happy!! I need to tell people how wonderful my life is now!! I need to convince people I'm really happy and my MM is different!! If you are really happy, you wouldn't be here in the first place would you? Are you just trying to convince yourself that you're happy? You sound really insecure in your posts. You say you are on the dean's list, have a ton of friends, blah blah blah, so why are you here again? Share your joy with your ton of friends. Point is, by posting so much and trying to justify your MM's actions and yours tell us that, you're not really that happy after all and you're just trying to convince yourself that you are. Pretty evident in most of your posts I'd say.
jthorne Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 There are several previously banned posters who have come back time and time again to take pokes at people, particularly in the OW/OM and infidelity forums. Occam's Razor.
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Posted May 18, 2011 You don't know me ! I am in a very good place in my life.. I have been posting a lot because 1.) I like to get my feelings out.. 2.) My cell phone is uncharged and waiting for my Aunt to send charger, so not as much friend time & 3.) Now that classes are over, I have more free time ! I am Smart !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am Happy !!!!!!!!!!! JOY !! I love power marks !!!!!!!!!!!!! My MM is different !!!!!!!!! Yipee ! :):D
leftfordead2 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 You sure seem to be hanging out at this section all day, lol. Say all you want, we know otherwise
Rose1977 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Well, I totally agree that I would be gone if a husband or boyfriend did that to me !! I would be gone gone gone !!!! And yes, people can say if he cheat on her he will cheat on you.. I don't really believe that. I am very faithful now that I know what I want, can't say I was when I was young. Every relationship is different. My Dad had EA with Stepmom, left Mom and has been with Stepmom for over 24 years. He never cheated again !! SOMETIMES people just realize they are not with the right person and need something else ![/QUOTE] Re: The bolded. Here's the thing - despite the perceived "war" between OW and BS's on this board, *most* of us agree with this. But what most people don't agree with is the lying and deceiving. In your situation, he has only been married for 2 months. It just seems like a no brainer. It would be extremely easy for him to get out of his M and be with you. No kids, nothing really to make him stay. It's the lies and deceipt that make people uneasy. I am sure his wife would not be happy with the fact that instead of either leaving or trying to figure out how to improve his marriage, he is spending 11 hours a day chatting and having cybersex with you. I think THAT is what frustrates people. He needs to s*** or get off the pot. He is staying in what you describe as a pretty miserable marriage without having the decency to tell his wife he is unhappy. She deserves at least that so SHE can make the decision if she should leave or try to make it work. All of us here have seen A's that end in the WS leaving to be with the OW. There are posters here that have responded to you that are in Rs that started as As. But your MM seems to be playing games with both of you. You are so caught up in this relationship, and the fact of the matter is, he still lives with and sleeps in bed with his W every night. She gets all the REAL parts of being with him - family functions, nights out, the simple things like watching TV together at night, talking, laughing, etc... And all the while she has no idea he is having a cyber-relationship with someone else. Seems unfair to everyone involved, including you.
Ms. Red Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 You sure seem to be hanging out at this section all day, lol. Say all you want, we know otherwise Better time could be spent killing zombies and special infected in the Parish!
26pointblue Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I think you should find a single man who lives close to you who you can date in real life. That's what a normal relationship is . . . not being some married guy's cyber-toy & deluding yourself into thinking he's leaving his wife for you! How very sad & pitiful. At 37 years old you should hold out for better!
greengoddess Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 hey school's out. Last terms professors are open game now. Were any hot and SINGLE?
Mimolicious Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 If my boyfriend or husband were spending hours sexting with some clueless bimbo or frolicking with her in the flesh, it would make no difference to me - he'd be out on his rump equally quickly either way. I guess the former technique doesn't spread the nasty bugs that he'd be catching with the flesh version of sex, but on an emotional level - same. My saying would be "You would have been better off eating the cake ($)(#$(#$&$ and not waste some a piece of a$$".
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