heartbroken555 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 (edited) Hi, My ex has a very huge ego, and is very hard headed. in our last exchange of emails ( closure ) She told me that she has met someone else,but they are not exclusive, she is casually dating. and that i should move on and that she is now happy. and that she wasnt in love with me anymore but that if i wished, we could keep in contact by email, to share our news I answered that i was happy for her, but that i would appreciate it if she doesnt contact me. unless i contact her when i will be ready. Now after reading alot on this forum, I understand i should never be the one to contact my ex since she dumped me. But now i feel like she will never contact me again, since i told her not to, and she will respect that. What the hell am i suppose to do now... I want to forget about her, but i still love her, and im still not over her. ITs been 4 month and im still heartbroken. I was going to send her a HUGE email yesterday, pouring out my heart to her, and how she hurt me. but i realised that would be a mistake. I guess she will never contact me again, unless i contact her first. I know that if i contact her, she will answer. but it wont be because she wants to get back together. and im also mad at myself, that i told her not to contact me, until i contact her... see how i m messed up ? a bit of guidance plz, i dont want to break NC and go back to square one ( im 1 month NC now ) but do you think she would ever contact me again ? ( she is still in touch with all her Exes....and she keeps their gifts, ect) Edited May 12, 2011 by heartbroken555
Fufu Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Hi, My ex has a very huge ego, and is very hard headed. in our last exchange of emails ( closure ) She told me that she has met someone else,but they are not exclusive, she is casually dating. and that i should move on and that she is now happy. and that she wasnt in love with me anymore but that if i wished, we could keep in contact by email, to share our news I answered that i was happy for her, but that i would appreciate it if she doesnt contact me. unless i contact her when i will be ready. Now after reading alot on this forum, I understand i should never be the one to contact my ex since she dumped me. But now i feel like she will never contact me again, since i told her not to, and she will respect that. What the hell am i suppose to do now... I want to forget about her, but i still love her, and im still not over her. ITs been 4 month and im still heartbroken. I was going to send her a HUGE email yesterday, pouring out my heart to her, and how she hurt me. but i realised that would be a mistake. I guess she will never contact me again, unless i contact her first. I know that if i contact her, she will answer. but it wont be because she wants to get back together. and im also mad at myself, that i told her not to contact me, until i contact her... see how i m messed up ? a bit of guidance plz, i dont want to break NC and go back to square one ( im 1 month NC now ) but do you think she would ever contact me again ? ( she is still in touch with all her Exes....and she keeps their gifts, ect) Never know if she will ever contact you, I don't think this is a important matter anymore. Just keep up to your NC and you will be fine
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