crazycatlady Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 My hip cramps sometimes from some positions (dang age and weight), and anal sometimes hurt because we don't do it enough to not hurt because I don't care how carefully you prepare, unless you are use to it, it can hurt some. I'm sore right now because it had been so long since we had regular sex - and to suddenly be having it about every other night, I'm a little sore . But man I'm loving it, so I'll take the soreness. Sometimes he gets me so turned on that I want way more orgasms then I normally want, and then I'm often sore the next day, and sometimes I am struggling to get off, and a little pain actually helps me get over the edge. He on the other hand likes it when he's sore the next day Then again...I like it when he's sore the next day too. So some of it is his kink.
jsb58 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 How is your sex life? Are you ever injured after sex? I was reading another board (affair related one) and I have to say it was eye opening as to the sex some people have. I have never been injured during sex. EVER. I have never been sore after sex. It's always loving, passionate, sometimes crazy but always, always caring about me personally and what positions would injure, break skin etc...He would never want to hurt me for his sexual gratification and I also would not allow myself to be hurt... I was reading where women discuss not being able to sit for days comfortably after anal and what suggestions do people have. Are you kidding me? How about this for a suggestion, Find a caring partner who will take their time and make sure you're body is ready for it. OMG one person even mentioned bleaching the skin of their anus to make it more attractive.:laugh: Then people discuss how good it feels to be so sore from so much normal sex not even anal? I don't get it. So basically, in summary, are you sore after sex? Am I missing something here?Here's what you are missing. You probably are not an OW who thinks with what is between your legs. You probably don't equate your self worth with what a freak you are in bed, and how you will do what the wife won't. For you, sex or making love is of mutual respect and mutual pleasure, not demeaning yourself for a MM. That's what you're missing.
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