onlyonepath2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 hello everyone! I'm new to this site and I have a bit of a situaton. for starters I used to be gay... but realized that it wasn't for me. I am attracted to women but that's all it is... it was a guy I used to date back in high school and he is extremely introverted and hard to deal with emotionally especially in high school. we've known each other since middle school back in 98 and we've remained good friends since jus last month after I got out of the military he came Down to visit me! I stopped thinking of him but when I saw him which had been at least 4 or 5 yes ago. when I saw him I realized how much I missed him and over the yes we actually took the time to get to know each other. a fee weeks later I had to come home due to personal reasons and I told him that I was in town and we have been hangin out when he gets the chance. he's still very quiet and I'm kinda scared to ask him how he feels about me. he's never been good with matters of the heart and I think he thinks that I'm still only dating women. he kind of makes me shy I don't kno how I should approach the situation!
TaraMaiden Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 You ARE still gay. You need to simply ask him if there's any way he'd like to move your 'friendship' up a grade. It's really that simple.
Author onlyonepath2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 I'm free spirited lol! thanks for ur response! I'm asking because he'll try to avoid combos like these it's cool I kno how he is and that does t bother me but if I just put it out there he will avoid it but it's quite obvious that it's something there... he's jus being him! which is what I like! lol
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