Hopeless Girl Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Im in a rut.. I started missing my ex from 2 years ago and I dont know why. The reason I came to LS in the first place was for my recent ex boyfriend but Im starting to not care about him and Im starting to miss my ex boyfriend from 2009. Why is this? I thought it was really over but then Im thinkin about him, our good old times. Im so jealous cause I know hes gonna marry the girl he is with now. They make the perfect couple. He is never gonna remember me. I texted him a month ago asking how he was. He asked me "why are you contacting me?" and I was like "i just wanted to see how u were". It had been a long time since I last spoke to him. He actually answered and asked me how I was. Then I asked if he wanted to have lunch and he told me he couldnt cause he didnt want problems with his girlfriend. I understood. He was a huge part of my life and I dont think Ill ever love another person as much as him. He was the love of my life and I thought he was gonna be forever. He also thought I was his love but I guess he got tired of the fights. We had such a great connection. .. Ive heard of couples gettin back together with their exes after 4 years and so. I dont think this will happen for me though. I am desperate to see and talk to this guy. We were so in touch. Plus he'll always be a prt of my life cause of mutual friends even though I never see him. Why do u think he still has me blocked in FB? It was 2 years ago.
TaraMaiden Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 You should just work on you. Live your life. Just let it go. I believe you said, here....
Author Hopeless Girl Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 I believe you said, here.... Haha.. but I wanna know why Im feeling like this now? I mean trust me after that break up in 2009 I worked on myself. I get into this new r/s and is horrible and now Im thinking about my 2 year old ex boyfriend? ...
loveprofusion Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 sorry to break the bubble.but you need to let go.nostalgia is universal.maybe because you didnt get a good BF after that.so you overglorify the past and wish to turn back the time.time is healer.i hate giving usual cliches like get a makeover,party out bla bla bla...it didnt work for me.cry it out,spend some time alone...u will find solace .
Recommended Posts