Sophie27 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Hi, My boyfriend and I of 2.5 years recently had an argument, but I swore at him which is something he can't tolerate and has told me before. It was a moment of weakness and I instantly regretted it as I know how important respect is to him in a relationship. I've apologized many times, but I think he's convinced this is just a personality conflict between us that will never be resolved. We really don't fight that much-it's just when we do, even small arguments- are hard for him to take. After three days, he says he thinks it's over and he wants to not talk for two weeks so we can figure things out (we got married so that he could stay in the country). We've been in this situation before-he stays angry after fights for a few days and wants to break up, but usually he calms down. Today I spoke with him on the phone, and, although he said he was still angry, he spoke very calmly that he thinks its over. It sounded more resolute than usual. I broke down, but agreed I would respect his time, hoping that eventually we could resole it. He said we would "talk again later." At the end of the conversation, he immediately texted "Just so you know. I love you! I will always love you. This situation is heartbreaking for me." I feel like someone has knocked the wind out of me. I don't know whether to take that message with hope that we may have a chance or see it as him letting me down gently? I guess my only real option is to wait for him contact me? I'm so upset that this whole situation is due to a moment of weakness on my part. I feel like such a failure. Any advice would be appreciated
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