Tkjonelol Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, and I think she's ready to have sex, but I'm afraid since my penis is a bit below average (4.9 inches), I really love her and it feels like I'm letting her down. As if she deserves something bigger... What do I do?
Rinnix Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 If she cares about you she won't care about the size. She will be focusing on the experience you have together.
Rinnix Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 wow a lot of guys have small penises on this forum lol This comment was unnecessary and plain rude. OP is insecure about his size and came to us for advice. This is how you treat him? OP not everyone is shallow. You can please your GF, long as you have technique do not worry.
nyc_guy2003 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 The bigger question (no pun intended) is how did you date someone without having sex or not even seeing each other naked for 6 months??
Author Tkjonelol Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 Sex with a partner in my opinion is the last thing on my mind, I like to get to know my lover as a human before a piece of meat, you know?
Med Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 , I like to get to know my lover as a human before a piece of meat, you know? Well time for you to find out if she wants to do the same with you. To get to know you as a human being & not just some flesh so hence size wont matter.
Rinnix Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 As I mentioned above, if she cares for you she won't mind. If anything she will just find ways (positions) and techniques for it to work. Just have a talk with her about it. No reason to feel ashamed.
Author Tkjonelol Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 Well, I'm actually 5 inches you could say, depends on how I measure. I find my penis is in proportion to my body, me being very slim, tall and muscular makes it a great size for my body, I'm just worried about her being happy and that's all, because being unsatisfied in bed doesn't do any good for the relationship.
welikeincrowds Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 We're talking about penises here so I'll keep it dick themed, rather than going into "sex, and how to have it :rolleyes:", because I'm sure you're okay on that end. That said: the brain is the most powerful and important sex organ. That has some consequences for you to consider. One is that the most powerful and important sex organ is not your dick. It's not "Pakistani"'s dick either. It's her mind (and yours). So get that dick **** out of your head, because it's not even relevant. Another is that you're having a sex with a woman long before she's in your bed, or even in your house. You're having sex with her from the moment you pick her up and take her out. If you're worried about performance, the first thing to consider is how you carry yourself, from hello to goodnight. So again, get that dick **** out of your head; it's not even relevant and it's going to **** with how you carry yourself. That said, it's misleading to say that size doesn't matter. It doesn't really matter unless you have a micropenis or some other significant problem -- but you asked, so I may as well share my opinion on it: There is a psychological effect associated with the penis. An erect penis is a stimulating image in its own right -- why after all do you think we build a giant one in the American capital? With vaginal sex, a woman enjoys the idea that she is being filled and properly ****ed. One way to create these ideas in her mind is by having the appearance of a hard, powerfully erect dick -- key words here being "one" and "appearance". Appearance: you say that your penis looks good with your body: good. Keeping your hair trim will help you in that area as well. One: remember, it's the idea of being filled and properly ****ed. There are positions that will make her feel full, where you can touch her cervix even with a below average dick, were you so inclined. And I'm sure you can imagine the ways you can make her feel properly ****ed. But to reiterate the above -- you've been having sex with her all night long; it didn't start when you put your penis in her. Your actual technique does matter of course, but sex is a mutual performance. Your confidence, swagger, and rapport with her is going to have the biggest impact on whether or not she feels properly ****ed.
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