muzik_lvr Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Yeah it's true, me and my ex-gf have the same birthday, May 12th lol. She dumped me about 4.5 months ago and I've been in NC with her for over 3 months. Previously, I was toying around with the possibility of texting her and wishing her happy birthday or sending her a card, but I've decided to stick to NC and say nothing. The only thing still bugging me a little bit is the fact we both have the same birthday. I am just wondering if that would change anything up at all. I am about 99.9% she will not say anything to me tomorrow, and I am content with that. Has anyone else had the same birthday as their ex? If so, what was your experience?
JasonRules Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 Mine is in early March and my exes is in March 24 days later. She wished me happy birthday (sang to me over the phone). We ended things on the 11th, mostly due to her being distant and cold. I never wished her anything on her birthday. Can't have it both ways.
Desensitized Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 My ex-fiancee's birthday is 2 days after mine, and she wished me a happy birthday. I didn't respond to her two text messages/phone calls she made to me, and she didn't really care that I didn't. Her birthday rolled around and I didn't say happy birthday - she ended up flipping **** on me for not saying happy birthday via text, and I replied with a simple "you're not worth my time anymore." She then proceeded to try getting ahold of me by calling me/texting me. Just don't waste your time... keep NC
loverboy1984 Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 First of all I have one thing to say to you. Listen carefully. No one on this thread has told you this yet.... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! yes happy birthday to you. Celebrate you today! go out or stay in but surround yourself with people who are important to you and who you're important to. Have fun and dont think about your ex today.
Author muzik_lvr Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 First of all I have one thing to say to you. Listen carefully. No one on this thread has told you this yet.... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! yes happy birthday to you. Celebrate you today! go out or stay in but surround yourself with people who are important to you and who you're important to. Have fun and dont think about your ex today. Thank you very much!! I really do appreciate that. And, thank you for the reminder not to focus on my ex today but to enjoy the day for myself.
Author muzik_lvr Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 Haha thanks! I am having a great day so far. I don't have the urge to text or email my ex today which I am glad for. I hope she has a good day today as well, and I prayed that she would have a good day and have peace & comfort in whatever is going on in her life.
kaycstamper Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I would not say/do anything to her. She knows you haven't forgotten and it will driver her nuts, that's okay.
Author muzik_lvr Posted May 13, 2011 Author Posted May 13, 2011 For anyone who was curious, my ex didn't contact me on the day of our birthdays, and I didn't contact her. That communicates a lot to me from her end. Continuing with NC. Thanks for the encouragement guys!
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