john1988 Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 Not been on this forum for a long long time, feel like I need it again, I had a bad break up around 2 years ago and still not recovered from it, met a few girls since and still feel the same, started going out with a new girl and it still hurts, just hate the fact it still affects me, still on my mind, changed me as a person, changed how I am in relationships, she took away my happy naive self I really do hate her for that she's cut me so deep. I used to be so soft hearted now I'm really hard nosed about certain things-loathe the person I've become. Don't really know why I'm back on just don't want this to be my life, I'm living in the past how do I get into the future?
Mcnulty Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 Sorry to hear you're still struggling John. It's not that unnatural to still be looking back and to feel it has changed you. Good that you're meeting other girls...the right one to mobilize your zest for life obviously hasn't come along, but have faith, it will happen eventually. Have you thought about counselling? It may help you put some things to rest and help you move on.
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