Callisto484 Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 I have implemented NC with my H. The only reason he has contacted me since then has been via email to discuss logistics with my move back to New York. Other than that, we have had no contact. He has arranged everything and has even paid for my return airplane ticket back to NY after I've packed up my things and shipped them from CA. I guess this marriage really is over. He really wants this divorce and has not changed his mind or reconsidered his decision at all. I was still hopeful....damn.
Mauschen Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 NC works to help YOU heal and move on. Also, begging, crying, whining, etc makes you seem very unattractive to your spouse, so if there is any hope, NC does work. But, it doesn't ALWAYS work if the other person is ready to move on.
YellowShark Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 No contact doesn't let you in the gates of heaven, it let's you out the gates of hell. It's a way for you to heal and regroup and has nothing to do with "them." I've been NC for nearly a year and it's great. Don't care anymore what she wants or is up to. It's all about me now and my healing.
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