Shaun-Dro Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 I spent the earlier part of the morning standing above my sister's back as she typed away inside of the Teen Chat room, just to see what she was talking about on there. The chat room is saturated with perverts and sex bots selling kiddie porn! Its awful My sister is 18, a legal young adult in NYS, but regardless, to see her get hit on relentlessly by much older men in the age ranges of 35-50 is much too upsetting. She was disturbed by this greatly, especially since when she goes to work (part time job) these same types of men drive up to her in cars and vans, saying fresh things to her, and sometimes even offering her money to get in the vehicle! These incidents have picked up greatly in the past year and much more now that the weather's nicer and she has a job, having to go out in public 4 days a week. Anyway, as I stood there and watched, my sister told me the way to get the perverts to respond is to simply say "hello, 14f, older guys?" and bam, she got about 50 hits in under 3 minutes, with men asking and begging to meet her. Begging for her pics. Begging for her cell number, etc. I know 18 is her real age, but it's the point of showing that these predators will stop at nothing to get a younger girl. I mean, I knew this was going on to some extent, but never so fiercely. And these teen chats are not being monitored at all. I wonder why? Then, to wrap things up, my sister revealed to me that last night, when she was online in the chat, she thought she had finally made a connection with a young guy around her age, who claimed to be 22 and sent her pics of himself through yahoo for proof. My sister took a chance and gave him her cell number. It turns out that the dude is over 40 (he admitted this after talking to her because he claimed he wanted to be with her and how she was so perfect for him) and he kept calling and calling, texting and texting, where I had to step in, but he completely avoided me! My sister then calls me at work just an hour ago on her lunch break to tell me that he's called again and plans on giving out her number to everyone else in the chat if she doesn't talk to him . I'm in a tight spot here. I'm not sure how to proceed with this. I can call the police, but what exactly do I tell them? They've never met and won't after this craziness. Any advice and similar experiences please enlighten?
Dust Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 Why don’t you tell your parents and deal with this as a family? I don’t understand why she was in some chat filled with perverts and criminals looking for a date? I mean instead of standing over her shoulder maybe you should have warned her. She should stop looking for dates on the internet or at least craigslist and internet chat rooms. Blocking her number may work, but if it doesn’t she can always change the number. The guy might just be blowing off steam, he’ll be rejected by some new girl and forget about your sister probably.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 She's 18, she should know better. Does she go to college? Perhaps that's a way to meet guys? Also, the police monitor these chatrooms. If you don't want your sis being targeted by the police, please tell her to leave these chatrooms alone.
Knittress Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 Hm. Wonder if these guys are thinking, "just because she's young and attractive doesn't mean she has to brush guys off like that! What a rude stuck up b****!!! I'm going to give her a piece of my mind!!" You think?
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 She's 18, she should know better. Does she go to college? Perhaps that's a way to meet guys? Also, the police monitor these chatrooms. If you don't want your sis being targeted by the police, please tell her to leave these chatrooms alone. Why would the police target my sister? She's the victim here. That weird comment doesn't make any sense to me. The pervert has stopped texting and calling since she's ignored him all day long. And to answer the post about meeting guys at school, she's finished with HS, but doesn't start college until I believe September, but even that isn't guaranteed. I know how she gets sometimes with these things. Another thing is that my sister has no success in meeting guys around her age. I dont know. Maybe it's a NYC thing where everybody's afraid to talk to each other. I already made threads about the women issue. She used to go on Teen Chat a couple years ago and only ran into a small number of these characters, but now every man in there is over 30. What is this really about? And if the police were seriously monitoring the chats, I doubt the number of perverts would be so extensive . Either way, she's not going back in there. I spoke to her for 2 hours this afternoon about it and other issues concerning this matter. She begged me not to tell "Mom" so I won't. I'll respect her wishes this once.
mr.dream merchant Posted May 12, 2011 Posted May 12, 2011 So glad I don't have a younger sister. I'd probably end up ****ing somebody's face up real nice.
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