MissJoness Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Some ppl must age quickly. I am 26, and still look like a senior in high school. Regularly I get hit on by high school guys who think I am their age. In fact, there's a 17 year old who has a crush on me now. But in college, I don't feel old or out of place because ppl think I am anywhere from 18-22. He could date a younger girl and it not be all that big of a deal. There are so many different age groups in college, its not all populated by 19 yr olds.
Author one goal Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 Some ppl must age quickly. I am 26, and still look like a senior in high school. Regularly I get hit on by high school guys who think I am their age. In fact, there's a 17 year old who has a crush on me now. But in college, I don't feel old or out of place because ppl think I am anywhere from 18-22. He could date a younger girl and it not be all that big of a deal. There are so many different age groups in college, its not all populated by 19 yr olds. Would you late a 18 yr old date you? that would be a fantasy for them. A hot, older girl with experince.
MissJoness Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Would you late a 18 yr old date you? that would be a fantasy for them. A hot, older girl with experince. No, I don't like younger guys. Even when I was a teenager, I didn't even like guys in my age group because of the immaturity. And most of them don't have a car, or a job or anything. Also I am not all that sexually experienced. And I don't like to be called 'older girl' makes me feel old
Lilmisus Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 This has nothing to do with this thread really but I just had to share this since it reminded me of OG soooo much An almost 3 minute long on Youtube about an obsession with a skater girl chick. I thought it was funny..but I may be alone
milkmaterial Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 as a man i dont think you really have an age rage, i know 33-35 year olds who go for 18 -24 year olds ONLY higher than that seems old to them. i asked my guy friend who is 31 why most guys prefer way younger women and i only remember one thing he said, about vaginas being looser or something..which is funny cause just because a woman is older doesnt mean she has more sex than younger ones (therefore being looser down there). my question is though what if these girls get "older" , are they replaced with a newer, more tighter model?
Lucky_One Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Giving your recent history, please PLEASE seek some professional help before you start trying to hit on women again. You need some help with boundaries. I know people have been bashing you and attacking you, flaming you and calling you a stalker, but darlin, if the shoe fits... You have a bad track record here of stalker-ish behavior towards women. You become obsessed with them, twisting everything that they say or do into something you THINK you see, not what they're actually saying. I'm 26, a woman around your age, and if you were to hit on me (if I were single) and start doing the same things you've done in the past I would run the complete opposite direction because you don't understand boundaries. You don't understand the general human behavior of flirting and dating. Please, for your sake and the women you're going to be hitting on in the future, talk to a counselor. A therapist, someone that can help you see where you're going wrong and how to fix it. So so utterly true. Onegoal, I totally left your other thread alone after you got shown to be an absolute obsessive nutter with women from posts on other websites. I thought that maybe you would leave LS alone after your other stuff was exposed. But obviously not. I honestly thought that you could be triggered to go something REALLY rash or stupid. OG, you have no idea of how to meet, date, and subsequently "bone" a girl. You need professional help from a counselor or therapist on recognizing boundaries and the proper way to seek female attention. Your university should offer that at no (or possibly low) charge. But please don't go start on a fixation with someone else, before you learn to deal with the disconnect in your own psyche between what is appropriate and what is not.
Author one goal Posted May 16, 2011 Author Posted May 16, 2011 So so utterly true. Onegoal, I totally left your other thread alone after you got shown to be an absolute obsessive nutter with women from posts on other websites. I thought that maybe you would leave LS alone after your other stuff was exposed. But obviously not. I honestly thought that you could be triggered to go something REALLY rash or stupid. OG, you have no idea of how to meet, date, and subsequently "bone" a girl. You need professional help from a counselor or therapist on recognizing boundaries and the proper way to seek female attention. Your university should offer that at no (or possibly low) charge. But please don't go start on a fixation with someone else, before you learn to deal with the disconnect in your own psyche between what is appropriate and what is not. What do you mean how to seek female attention properly? I dress decent and that.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 They say that women run down and age faster than men. Who? Old men who are sitting around b.s.ing with a bunch of other lonely old guys? So a woman who's about your age will have a much lower energy level than you years down the line. Maybe, until they hit about 40, when many women are sex crazed animals and lots of men are lining up for the Viagra. All joking aside - I went to my 25 year class reunion and the population of men there absolutely looked much more "run down and aged" than the women. My boyfriend went to his 30th and confirmed the same. There are exceptions, of course (he's one of them!) OG - therapy before any contact with women, please, I beg of you. The "one goal" should be that if a woman, or any person tells you "no," or "go away," or anything like that - you listen to them, believe them, and leave them alone. Okay?
Lucky_One Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 What do you mean how to seek female attention properly? I dress decent and that. You remind me of the old jokes about dogs, with the man and woman in the kitchen talking, with the dog laying under the table. Woman: Spot got on the couch again while we were at work today. Man: Bad dog, Spot, bad dog! Woman: We are going to have to put him in the kennel when we leave. Man: Bad dog, Spot, bad dog! Woman: Spot is driving me crazy. (gets out can opener and opens can of peas) What Spot hears: Blahblahdeblahdeblahtyblah, blah, blahblah, blahdeblahblah, blahhhhlalablah, CAN OPENER!!!!!!! FOOD!!!!!!!! One goal, no one gives a rat's ass how you dress. We are talking about your behavior. I am nowhere close to being qualified for helping you psychologically - see help from professionals, instead of from the internet. Good luck, but I won't be participating in your threads anymore. I truly worry about your behavior being triggered by posts on here, and possibly escalating. This is an internet board, nothing more.
Author one goal Posted May 16, 2011 Author Posted May 16, 2011 You remind me of the old jokes about dogs, with the man and woman in the kitchen talking, with the dog laying under the table. Woman: Spot got on the couch again while we were at work today. Man: Bad dog, Spot, bad dog! Woman: We are going to have to put him in the kennel when we leave. Man: Bad dog, Spot, bad dog! Woman: Spot is driving me crazy. (gets out can opener and opens can of peas) What Spot hears: Blahblahdeblahdeblahtyblah, blah, blahblah, blahdeblahblah, blahhhhlalablah, CAN OPENER!!!!!!! FOOD!!!!!!!! One goal, no one gives a rat's ass how you dress. We are talking about your behavior. I am nowhere close to being qualified for helping you psychologically - see help from professionals, instead of from the internet. Good luck, but I won't be participating in your threads anymore. I truly worry about your behavior being triggered by posts on here, and possibly escalating. This is an internet board, nothing more. What is it about my behavior? I dont sexually harass women.
Cracker Jack Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 You're very obsessive. Surely even you can realize that's a big flaw in your behavior.
LexiB Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 What is it about my behavior? I dont sexually harass women. You may not *sexually* harass women but you do *harass* them just the same. Do you not see that ANY form of harassment, bothering, annoying, pestering, bugging...basically engaging in an unwanted pursuit of, or paying unwanted attention to a person is bad? A very, very bad thing. Something you should not do. If you haven't at least learned that much from your recent experience, you're not ready to date. Period.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Do you see a pattern in the way your "interest" in various women (ranging from celebrities to your professor to girls at school) plays out? You live with your parents, right? Have you ever had any treatments or therapy for your obsessive behavior? Are you, or have you ever tried medications?
Ross MwcFan Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 18 or over is appropriate IMO. If you're actually looking for a relationship or girlfriend which will work out though, then it all depends on how mature you are for your age, and how much relationship/girlfriend experience you have.
vsmini Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 A man should look for a woman 6-8 years younger than him. At least a few years younger is good. They say that women run down and age faster than men. So a woman who's about your age will have a much lower energy level than you years down the line. Please - he goes for a girl that's 20 she'll most likely be done and out of the relationship. I might as well make an unfounded bold statement too and say that 20 year olds won't be in it for the long haul if they meet you at 20 so you don't have to worry about them getting run down and haggard - they'll have dumped you for someone else by the time they're 22!
thatone Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Maybe, until they hit about 40, when many women are sex crazed animals and lots of men are lining up for the Viagra. All joking aside - I went to my 25 year class reunion and the population of men there absolutely looked much more "run down and aged" than the women. My boyfriend went to his 30th and confirmed the same. There are exceptions, of course (he's one of them!) slightly earlier than that even more so. at my 15 year quite a few of the women looked better than they did at 18-20. one former cheerleader in particular, she showed interest when i was just moving off to college back in the day, still pissed off about missing out on that one when i was 18 .
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