heIIokitty Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 My ex dumped me in January 2011 (we are both college kids). For a good month, he kept in contact and told me he still cared about me and stuff. I begged, cried, and made every other mistake after the breakup. But starting February, he started ignoring me. He ignored me no matter what i did and he still ignores me to this day. I don't really think i did anything to piss him off. Hes the type of person that doesn't ignore people. Hes the one that insisted we should be friends while i told him no. i dont want to get back with him now or anything but i just cant understand why he ignores me. It's not like i hurt him or anything. So im wondering why dumpers would ignore dumpee? (if you were a dumper before and ignored your ex, why would you?)
kaycstamper Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 I wasn't the dumper, but maybe it's guilt? Esp if you begged, cajoled, etc. after he dumped you. People want to be around someone that makes them feel good about themselves, not bad.
rayne05us Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 To be honest, it sounds like you're being ignored because he's moved on and is tired of hearing from you. If you were in his shoes and broke up with someone, would you want to hear from them all the time. He's not worth your time. Move on to someone else who cares about you. Best of luck.
Author heIIokitty Posted May 11, 2011 Author Posted May 11, 2011 thanks for your replies.. i dont think he doesnt talk to me because he feels guilty about hurting and breaking up with me. i think rayne05us is right. It hurts to know that within 1 month, someone that tells you they loved you and cared for you are able to move on so fast. But i think that's just the reality of it. :/
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