shellbell29 Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 I met this man who basically interegated me, we were together that night & he called and took me out to dinner then called me nearly everyday after that for 3 weeks, i new due to our discussions that he was extremely busy & wasnt happy bout his new living arrangements. anyway his calls backed off, didn't respond to a text, i left it a few days, i text him yesterday hello how are you? he called immediately to my surprise, we spoke he answered my questions he said that he was uncertain & disapointed with his living arrangements & didnt want to hurt anyone's feeling whilst feeling this way i said that was why i gave him space, and i understand as i am in the same boat with my living arrangements, however i was enjoying getting to know him however i didn't want to push anything, he said that he was still interested in dinner, he never mentioned any issues in seeing me, so i just wanted to see if other people would come to the same conclusion as i did which is that we are still dating?
guy777 Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 I don't have a whole lot of experience detecting this stuff, because I'm a guy. But I'm wondering, is he married?
Author shellbell29 Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 no he definitely not married i know that for sure, he split with someone last year, they have sold the house and he has temporarily moved in with a friend and her family. (he is not with her) as i thought the same thing, however she was there the night we met
Author shellbell29 Posted May 12, 2011 Author Posted May 12, 2011 also he is in a band (i know) however they are old workmates of mine, he also stated he was uncertain about that, not the guys but whether it was the venue they played at and things like that, so is he testing me to see if he trusts me not to run back and say he is not feeling comfortable, or is he still trying to figure out ways to tell me he not interested
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