DreamerGirl27 Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 so, I guess I now have 2 guy friends. One of them I like, one of them I used to like, but don't anymore. Anyway...I am very leery of this "friendship". I know where "friendships" with guys lead. Guys make me uncomfortable, because I know they always want one thing. I am not the kind of girl to keep a lot of guy friends. Anyway... a little back story. I knew this guy when I was just a kid in junior high and a little through out high school and I found him on facebook and added him. Well, I didn't think anything of it, because no guys I ever add talk to me even after I add them. Well, this one does. lol He started IMing me frequently and he still does. I am just waiting for the day when he wants to hang out. Except, he's engaged. I find this to be completely wrong. I don't know why he's talking to me online when he is engaged. He should be talking to his girl. I am really leery of where this is going. I don't know what to do, plus, I don't like him anymore. I don't wanna keep talking to him and string him along. Yes, I think just talking to someone of the opposite sex is giving them false hope. But anyway.... I guess I shouldn't worry just yet. If he starts asking to hang out, then I will worry. No guy with a functioning penis in his pants asks a girl to hang out and it's completely "innocent". Dang...I am cynical of guys. lol
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 11, 2011 Author Posted May 11, 2011 Disinterested, I am still interested, but I'm just seeing where things go and right now that's still friendship. Not a lot I can do about it. I'm just worried about this new guy.
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 11, 2011 Author Posted May 11, 2011 What is there to worry about? Defriend him. The next time he contacts you tell him you don't feel comfortable talking to a soon-to-be married man which is why you need to end all communications. You had no difficulty saying no to the hot rocker when he pushed for sex you wanted. This should be much easier. The hot rocker wasn't pushing for sex with me and I don't want it unless we are in a committed relationship. He knows this.
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