Fedor Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 (edited) [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I’m shortening this post. Been together 2.5 years. I’m in my 2nd year of college while she is about to graduate high school. We have always a ‘its only me and you’ type mentality. Of course, she was the one who always wanted to be together almost 24/7. We recently hit a rough patch though and wound up taking a break. She started changing in ways that I could never imagine before the break. The phone calls and texts came less, the sweetness was gone and there was always an excuse as to why we couldn’t hang out. We recently got back together but the changes are still happening. She claims she loves me but I feel a larger rift between us as everyday passes. Is she trying to acquire a new found independence because she is graduating high school? I’m fighting for this relationship but I’m not seeing that same fire in her.[/sIZE][/FONT] Edited May 11, 2011 by Fedor
Author Fedor Posted May 14, 2011 Author Posted May 14, 2011 Any advice on growing apart in a relationship would be helpful
Hhhh Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 This is common in young women (happened to my ex), A whole new world opens for them as soon as they graduate high school. They would rather explore it than be tied down in a relationship.
PinkChic Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 I would just like to add my .02 My ex recently came begging back to me after being broken up just a little over a month... I always dreamt of this day. Unforutantly it's didn't feel as good as I imagined it in my head. He is doing everything absolutely right. He is being the most loving, caring boyfriend in the world, however I am still very guarded for how he broke up with me and whether he will up and leave out of the blue again. Him and I had a heart to heart the other day and we put both of our feelings out on the table. I'm sure he feels the same way as you... my fire is gone. Please accept that time is a beautiful thing. Time makes things easier and brings people together. I think over time him and I will be better than ever. It's hard to get back together with someone after you have gone through such a rocky stage. Good Luck to you
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