TerryW Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 I used to believe that my Husband and I would be together forever. The whole death til you part bit but now two years past D-day I think more along the lines of "I'll stay but if it starts to go bad again I'm outta hear." Have you gone through this period? Is this just the reprecusions of his A? Basically I'm wondering if this way of thinking is permanent or just maybe a phase to protect myself still. I feel kinda bad thinking that I'm not really reconsiling but maybe just protecting myself still. The marriage is going good right now. We have both made changes and we are way better than before. Thanks for your replies.
pinkrainbows Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Hi Terry, I think what your feeling is normal. I am now almost a year come D-DAY and although getting on alot better if EVER he does this to me again he is out the door and our marriage will be over. All i can say is take one day at a time and if things don't feel write talk to one another and be open with your feelings. Hope this has helped a little.
bloppy Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 I feel the same way. Things are going good right now but I still keep thinking it could happen again & try to prepare myself for it.
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