rayne05us Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Hi Everyone: I was dating this women who is my friend's aunt (I am also female) for 5 months. She just got out of a long relationship with her ex, so we took it very slow in the beginning. From day one we had great communication and trust and we got along very well. We both felt very happy/comfy around each other. (Our official date, we talked straight for 8 hours!) It was amazing eventhough we didn't want to rush it. Her ex, who had previously broke up with her twice before, saw me picking her up from work one day (they work together). In addition everything with the guy she was seeing and was moving in with blew up, so she came begging run back. Now, keep in mind, the girl admitted she wasn't even gay, and they have MAJOR trust issues from her insecurity so she's extremely controlling; My ex was seeing never cheated or anything on anyone ever. Never the less, the girl I was seeing broke it off almost a month ago and they've literally been fighting ever since...she told her niece(my friend) the very next day, it was a big mistake to take her back. So the part I am having a problem with is that she has been contacting me saying she misses me and she made a mistake and she was happy with me etc...My ex told her girl about everything and how she wasn't sure if she wanted to be together with her again. We made it clear that WE were what we were looking for in a relationship etc...but she says she's still confused. But for me, I feel like that's not a good enough answer. My ex is still with her and coming from a very manipulative relationship where I was strung along, I don't want to get into another situation like that. After kind of pounding in her head, I wanted no contact with her until she can decide, she finally got it. I even had to cut off contact her aunt who sees how miserable she is and wants her back with me, so she's in the middle of it. I just want to know if I made the right decision and if you think there's a chance she will come back? I know I need to move on, but I still miss her tremendously and we had something healthy and I was so happy.. Thanks for your help
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