ECuellar Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Ok if when you start dating a guy and he has what you ask for a car, money, and a job. But later on in life he looses his job thus has not as much, and gets in a car accident and looses his car. Ok the question is would you stay with him after he looses all that he has or would you stay with him and help support him?
Sabali Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Ok if when you start dating a guy and he has what you ask for a car, money, and a job. But later on in life he looses his job thus has not as much, and gets in a car accident and looses his car. Ok the question is would you stay with him after he looses all that he has or would you stay with him and help support him? Please tell me that you are not seriously considering leaving this guy when he is down. This is what it means to be a great and loyal friend through thick and thin. This is the very crucial foundation of any relationship. Absolutely not. Hey, I could write a whole series of books on this topic. Stand by this guy! It is good for your soul!
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Ok if when you start dating a guy and he has what you ask for a car, money, and a job. But later on in life he looses his job thus has not as much, and gets in a car accident and looses his car. Ok the question is would you stay with him after he looses all that he has or would you stay with him and help support him? What I ask for in a guy is not just a car, money, and a job. If so, then I'd be happy seducing one of many and be set for the rest of my life. But what I want is compatibility and something deeper. If we were just dating, it depends on how he handles the situation. If we were married, I'd stick with him...to a certain extent. I would only leave if he were abusive and whatnot. Where the River Ends is a wonderful book about a woman who gets breast cancer and loses everything but the love of her husband. If I wish my SO would do so for me, then I should do the same for him.
Author ECuellar Posted May 10, 2011 Author Posted May 10, 2011 Im a guy and not gay. I ment this as a question for the woman. I want their opinion its nothing towards me
Sabali Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Im a guy and not gay. I ment this as a question for the woman. I want their opinion its nothing towards me Hey, man, don't be a shame of who you are. Just kidding...
NoMagicBullet Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 It depends on if he's trying to find another job and get back on his feet. I met a guy while he was unemployed and looked past it, and I dated him. He made all kind of excuses why he couldn't apply for certain jobs, and the few jobs he did get, he didn't hold onto. I paid for just about everything while I dated him. When I finally dumped him, he was still unemployed. Total parasite. So what the guy does after losing his job and his car is much more important than simply not having a car and a job.
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