nyckidd Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 My ex text me today after a week of nc, she said I just wanted to say and good luck on your finals. I know youll do great. I said thanks you too. She then text me again about an hour later saying that she wants to see me and that she thinks its the right time to see me, and if i didnt want to it was ok. idk, the only reason id want to see her is if she wanted to be with me, other than that why would I want to see her? What should I say to this girl?
nana841121 Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 In my humble opinion, if getting back together is what you want. then decline her invitation saying that you want to be alone to get over her. see what she will do next. this is not a game, it's a strategy to protect yourself getting further hurt and to make her clear about her feeling towards you.
Author nyckidd Posted May 10, 2011 Author Posted May 10, 2011 In my humble opinion, if getting back together is what you want. then decline her invitation saying that you want to be alone to get over her. see what she will do next. this is not a game, it's a strategy to protect yourself getting further hurt and to make her clear about her feeling towards you. I agreed to meeting her, but I was thinking about telling her that tommorow before we meet. Something tells me that she is just wanting to see if im "still there" so to speak. She also just text me and asked if I wanted my clothes back because she has alot of them. I declined and said no I dont want them. This is begining to be pretty clear that Ill just get hurt from seeing her. Im pretty sure she doesnt want to reconcile.
nana841121 Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Then say goodbye to her. maintain your dignity and pride. She is not the one.
Fufu Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 I agreed to meeting her, but I was thinking about telling her that tommorow before we meet. Something tells me that she is just wanting to see if im "still there" so to speak. She also just text me and asked if I wanted my clothes back because she has alot of them. I declined and said no I dont want them. This is begining to be pretty clear that Ill just get hurt from seeing her. Im pretty sure she doesnt want to reconcile. If you know in your heart that if you are going to get hurt from seeing her. Don't meet her. Why walk into the hole when you know there's a trap one step away from you?
Am4Real Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 If you are void of hearing the words "I made a mistake and want to revisit the relationship if you'll have me" then you're almost likely setting yourself up for serious disappointment. What is most probably going on is she is not yet sure she made the right or the wrong decision and is missing you. Remember she already made the supposed wrong decision and is now rethinking it; she might then make the intermediate "right decision" according to you and then rethink that as well. If she wants you back she will beat all the doors down that stand between you both. If not, then stop talking/text'ing her and begin to heal and move on.
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