LadyWriter Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 An ugly man has more options than an obese female. Men are more apt to notice physical attributes first while a woman's physical attraction to a man can actually grow over time. This has happened to me several times and to other women I know as well. If a woman is around long enough to get to know the guy's personality, and is attracted to it, the more she will find herself physically attracted to him as well. However, I think this applies more to "okay" looking men than just plain ugly. Obese women tend to be written of quickly. (Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, as always.) Being a thick girl, myself, I've only dated one guy who was major hot and desired by many women I know. He knows he's good looking, but he's never been shallow enough to pass a girl by based on the size of her waist. Not all men are so shallow, I know, AND I know many say the women look unhealthy (yes, I agree) BUT what if you got to know the lady's personality and that aspect of her was everything you ever wanted....would her dress size still be as big of a deal?
fishtaco Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Probably more quality than those here in southern California. Makes me want to move to Montreal. There are plenty of quality women here in Southern California. If you limit "quality" to only superficial things, like quality man-made racks from top-notch surgeons.
Author Darren Taylor Posted May 10, 2011 Author Posted May 10, 2011 Men are more apt to notice physical attributes first while a woman's physical attraction to a man can actually grow over time. Physical attraction can grow, male or female. It's not limited to one gender.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Physical attraction is instantaneous. It isn't the kind of attraction that grows but it might drop off. Not necessarily. I've noticed women much later on, after I get to know them. I fall in love with their personalities. I imagine it's the same for women, although I haven't actually seen it happen yet.
fishtaco Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Not necessarily. I've noticed women much later on, after I get to know them. I fall in love with their personalities. I imagine it's the same for women, although I haven't actually seen it happen yet. If they fall in love with your personality, chances are, you'll become platonic best friends.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 If they fall in love with your personality, chances are, you'll become platonic best friends. Actually, no, I wanted to **** her. She, however, wasn't attracted to me. Therefore nothing happened. Best friends don't **** each other.
carhill Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Does an ugly man have the same amount of options(or lack there of) as an obese woman? Having dated a few 'heavy' women and being married to one for ten years (now divorced, nothing to do with her weight), I would opine obese women, all else equal, have more options simply due to their sexual power. Once my exW was done with me, she simply moved on to the next man/men who wanted to have sex with her. There are always men who will f*ck anything female that moves (and sometimes not even moving). In my life experience, one cannot say the same thing for women, even the promiscuous ones. YMMV. I'm observing a circumstance now where, if this were a man, he'd be living under a bridge drinking T-bird out of a bag and rubbing one out occasionally to relieve his prostate. In the form of a woman, such a person is 'assisted' and even loved. In the past, I've been that 'assistance' but now I'm more of an observer. Life teaches one lessons.
Wolf18 Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Having dated a few 'heavy' women and being married to one for ten years (now divorced, nothing to do with her weight), I would opine obese women, all else equal, have more options simply due to their sexual power. Once my exW was done with me, she simply moved on to the next man/men who wanted to have sex with her. There are always men who will f*ck anything female that moves (and sometimes not even moving). In my life experience, one cannot say the same thing for women, even the promiscuous ones. YMMV. I'm observing a circumstance now where, if this were a man, he'd be living under a bridge drinking T-bird out of a bag and rubbing one out occasionally to relieve his prostate. In the form of a woman, such a person is 'assisted' and even loved. In the past, I've been that 'assistance' but now I'm more of an observer. Life teaches one lessons. [/Quote] Haha, so damn true. I look at the average woman's personality and appearance (atleast in the USA), and think to myself "let's see how far they would get like this if they were male". Sexual liberation is probably the worst thing that has ever happened to men in terms of gender relations. Instead of living in a society where every man has a chance of getting a decent wife, it's now a constant struggle of who can kiss the most woman ass, regardless of its quality, to get a quick lay.
orangelady Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 I'm 6'2" as well, but it also depends what you look like. If you're 6'2" and look like Lurch, Quasimodo, or Michael Phelps, then your height doesn't matter. I dunno, I thought Michael Phelps is fine....
johan Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 If the premise of the thread were proven to be true, or at least everyone here agreed it was, then what? What is this information going to help you do? It just seems like a nonsense topic that probably has the added benefit of making some people feel bad about themselves.
threebyfate Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 How much information is helpful beyond informing the recipient? Not much in my experience. Does this mean most intellectual pursuits are in vain?Saying "Hi, you're fugly or Hi, you're fat" or pretending to be a woman, isn't helpful to anyone.
johan Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 How much information is helpful beyond informing the recipient? Not much in my experience. Does this mean most intellectual pursuits are in vain? An opinion or a lie isn't information. Are you sending secret messages to the resistance?
little.skittles Posted May 11, 2011 Posted May 11, 2011 (edited) Situation isn't ugly. You can't be a stripper if you're ugly. Not true. I've seen many unattractive stippers who should most definitely not be strippers. But more to the point, a lot of obese women are actually very attractive and have great personality's so why would an obese woman not be able to make a good looking guy just as happy as good looking woman. Of course the sexier woman is more fun to look at but the bigger girl will most likely make up for that in personality. Hence the words MOST LIKELY. Not always but sometimes. Edited May 11, 2011 by little.skittles
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