beccadawn Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 almost three years ago i was dating this guy who i fell in love with and then we went through a really bad break up because of a lot of miscommunications and we were young. after there were a few times I tried to get back together with him but every time we would one of my friends would make me feel really insecure and guilty about being with him resulting in me breaking up with him. the last time we tried to get together and broke up was after his step dad died and now after losing my mom I realize how terrible I was and how I should have been more supportive and understanding. I wrote a letter to apologize for all the things I did wrong now I have to decide if i should send it. I am afraid if I send the letter it will hurt the relationship I am in but the more I think about forever with the guy I am with now the more I want forever with my ex. however I am hoping with sending the letter I can let go of him and find closer. Should i send the apology letter or just leave him alone?
Datura Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Leave him alone. This seems to be more of a way to regain a connection with your ex, and gain closure as opposed to a sincere apology. There's a good chance your ex doesn't want to reopen that chapter in his life when he was hurt by you.
betterdeal Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 I'm sorry to hear about your loss. You have my sympathies. Maybe put that letter aside for now, and grieve you loss first. After you have dealt with your grief, reconsider the letter.
Author beccadawn Posted May 11, 2011 Author Posted May 11, 2011 thank you both. after thinking about it i've decided to just hold on to the letter i think sending it would hurt me more in the end and would just end up disrupting his life and causing him more problems from me and that nothing positive would come from it.
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