redrum35 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 After being with my GF for 8 years I found out she used to be an escort and it floored me. Ive asked her long ago if she had sex for money and she said no. She told me she used to do makeup at a strip club but that was a lie also. All of this was before I met her. I asked her once how many guys she had sex with and she said 11 I cannot trust her now or believe anything she says. It really hurt to learn about this and she hinks its no big deal since it was years before we met I feel horrible,So empty inside . She dont realize it broke my heart to hear her tell me that. Am I wrong? I feel like just running away but we have a young son. Why does it hurt so badddddd
collegeguy_24 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 This is normal. She lied to you and thats a pretty big deal. Not to mention that by lieing about being an escort she put you at risk for STDs. You might want to make sure you didn't get anything from her.
VicJay79 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 RedRum: I am sorry. These things happen, and what is worse is you have been with this person for over 8 years. I don't know what to say, then I am sorry. Your heart must be broken, and it must be really hard to go through the day. I am sorry my friend, we have all been here in one way or another. After being with my GF for 8 years I found out she used to be an escort and it floored me. Ive asked her long ago if she had sex for money and she said no. She told me she used to do makeup at a strip club but that was a lie also. All of this was before I met her. I asked her once how many guys she had sex with and she said 11 I cannot trust her now or believe anything she says. It really hurt to learn about this and she hinks its no big deal since it was years before we met I feel horrible,So empty inside . She dont realize it broke my heart to hear her tell me that. Am I wrong? I feel like just running away but we have a young son. Why does it hurt so badddddd
Silivren Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Did you ever consider maybe she's really ashamed of her past and that's why she didn't tell you? You don't know what she went through. There could have been some traumatic experiences for her and perhaps she has a hard time dealing with them and opening up about them. Perhaps you should examine the reasons she didn't tell you before you go making reckless decisions.
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