x heather x Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 I've been seeing somone for a little over two months and am not sure whats happening now ? We met when i was out with my friends and we got on realy well, by the end of the night I knew id never liked somone that must. He made it very clear he liked me too. He's in the army so alot of our relationship was though text which dosnt bother me. He told me he just got out of a two year relationship so wasnt looking into rushing into anything but it wasnt off the cards with us. Over time we have grown very close and he always said how much he liked me and missed me bla bla. I must admit we had been coming on very strong even tho we havnt realy known each other very long, which when i think about it seems very silly. The week before the incident happend he was at my house and he told me that he loved me. It didnt come as a shock because we'd been hinting towards the idea ( he seemed very sincere, the most i've ever herd) I feel abit guilty because i cant remember if i said it back. After that his phone broke and we couldnt talk for two weeks. When it was fixed he seemed different with me but i ignored it. not long after this i was on facebook when i sore somthing he'd wrote ( it was lyrics of a song about not being over your ex, he put a face after it ) I was very upset about it and felt it was a total disregard of my feelings. So i filped out abit and maybe went over the top. anyway we had a argument which was me kinda freaking out and him not realy trying to make things better. He said i had to understand that he just got out of a relationship ( which i do ) and he didnt mean to hurt me and didnt want too and that we should be friends because he's not sure he wants to be in a relationship. But he still talked to me like i was more. We had a week of ignoring each other then he text me saying - ( u ok ? I know we aint spoke in awhile but how are you x x x x ) I texted back and thought things would be ok, but the next day he just stopped and hasnt text me since. Its been four days and iv texted him twice just to confirm that he is the one ignoring me and he cant say its me aswell. I have no idea what to do, I feel like am waiting for somthing to happen. Most of the time am just in hope and a false sence that nothings wrong but when am not I feel completly misrabel and lost. It's silly that i care this much but I cant help it. Its the closest i've ever felt to loving somone and trusting them.( by the way theres a 4 year gap between us if that makes a difference ) Sorry for the esay, but dose anyone know what I should do ??
Author x heather x Posted May 9, 2011 Author Posted May 9, 2011 I met to say our relationship was MAINLY though text, we did see each other.
LoveHurts89 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 My only advice would to read through the threads on here and see how many people are hung up over exes and how they're doing everything possible to get them back. If he's just come out of a long term relationship and he isn't over his ex, out of respect for yourself, walk away. You don't want to be kissed by a man that's in love with another woman. Save yourself the pain xx
Author x heather x Posted May 9, 2011 Author Posted May 9, 2011 Your right, I think am just waiting for somthing thats not going to happen. Just needed to hear it from someone els. Thank you xx
Nightsky Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 You should see what’s happening for what it is. Being ignored only says something about him, not you. It would help if you actively tried to stop thinking about him and if he will ever call. You should even consider ignoring him if he txts or calls, and just move on with your life. Cheer up!
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