Shaun-Dro Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 This is starting to drive me insane now . I don't know if this goes on in other states, but here in NYC, almost all the women, especially in the age ranges of 20-30 are always cluttered together in pairs of 2s, 3s, 10s! I'm sick of it, because usually out of the group there is at least one or two fairly attractive women in it, but you can't get at them because of this. I see this all the time, too, when I'm out and about. I witness this at the movies 100% of the time. I see this in coffee shops 90% of the time. I see this in lounges maybe 100% of the time. However, I do see it a little less in department stores, maybe about 50%, so that might be my only break: when she's shopping alone for girlie stuff . What gives, ladies? Are you that much of a coward to be alone at times in public? Must you and another woman always be attached at the hip?
Nexus One Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Why are women always in groups??? Because they hunt in packs. Seriously though, I haven't noticed what you're mentioning, I see plenty of girls on their own all the time.
vsmini Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 What gives, ladies? Are you that much of a coward to be alone at times in public? Must you and another woman always be attached at the hip? I assure you - we aren't doing it to piss you off. Don't you ever go out with friends? Does that make you a coward? What gives Shaun-Dro? Are you that much of a coward that you can't come up to a girl when she's around another person? Must you always get upset that you can't back a little philly against the wall alone in order to talk to her?
vsmini Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Not to mention - I'm a Manhattanite myself and I think we have some of the most independent women around. I don't notice this much at all. And I'm a 28 year old female that rarely has someone attached to my hip.
Woggle Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 They all had a secret meeting and decided to do it to piss you off.
vsmini Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Pursuing women in clusters doesn't lead to a great deal of success. The woman a guy wants will be paying more attention to how her friends feel about him than how she feels about him. If the guy can't get them all to fall madly for him then he'll have a harder to impossible time getting any of them unless maybe if you go for the least desirable one. It will be interpreted by the others you have class or character. You might be able to manipulate that to your advantage to get the alpha or at least one of the beta females. Yea - I saw that theory on A Beautiful Mind. He talked about the alpha and everything else. I think that movie also took place in the 1960's.
Dust Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 I think this problem is more of a mental block you’ve created in your head. Just ride the subway and you’ll be able to spot tons of girls by themselves. As for girls in groups, my girlfriend was with two other girls when I met her. I had to arrange to see her one on one.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 9, 2011 Author Posted May 9, 2011 I think this problem is more of a mental block you’ve created in your head. Just ride the subway and you’ll be able to spot tons of girls by themselves. As for girls in groups, my girlfriend was with two other girls when I met her. I had to arrange to see her one on one. Yes, I forgot to mention the subway/trains, but the problem with that is here in NYC, women do not like to be approached down there. She has the worst attitude and the highest guard up, especially if she's alone, so I will go with cowardice as the best reasoning for her choice of sticking with groups all the time. PS- how often are you alone, VSmini? And do you fit in to the attractive criteria of women?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Women aren't always in groups. There are plenty of female loners.
sanskrit Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Lots are alone in bed and this is a good time to hide in their closet or under the bed. Outdoors, hide in bushes until a solo one walks by and then pop out and meet her that way. Just remember, women love spontaneous men.
Mrlonelyone Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 What disinterested said. Women clustered in a group like that, especially young ones will sit around and snipe at whoever else is around. In fact I would say even older ones do this. Their also right about some women caring more about how their friends feel about a man than how they feel about him. Many a man who can't find a date it's not because girls don't like him.... It's because the ones who do have friends who don't like him. I know this because I have been on the inside looking out on that interaction from time to time in my life. This is how I can say that women are, when in the company of other women, just as shallow and mean as men. They may not get physical but they have their own ways of being aggressive which are just as bad.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Shaun-Dro, The more of your posts that I read, the more I wonder ... Do you dislike women as much as you seem to? Why are you pursuing women at all, when you have such a lot of unconcealed anger towards all of us? What in the world do you think ANY girl or woman would want with a man who feels that way? What do you believe you have to offer that would be of value? I am asking sincerely.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Lots are alone in bed and this is a good time to hide in their closet or under the bed. Outdoors, hide in bushes until a solo one walks by and then pop out and meet her that way. Just remember, women love spontaneous men. I sincerely hope you're joking. If you are, this post is winning. If you're not, you just won the creepiest poster award. Congratulations!
Woggle Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 My iq dropped simply by reading this thread. The best way to meet a woman is to just approach her like a human being and ask her if she wants to grab a cup of coffee or something like that. Even if she says no chances are you will not get a nasty response. Even if I think the OP is a serious misogynist and this is coming from somebody who fully admits he has issues with women.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 OP, the reason that they're in groups is that they're secretly plotting against you, aliens, the government, swiss cheese, brain farts, and what it means to be a shoe salesman. The answer is that you should dress up in a pink tutu, and dance around them while screaming "I am not worthy! I am not worthy!" That should get their attention.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 The answer is that you should dress up in a pink tutu, and dance around them while screaming "I am not worthy! I am not worthy!" That should get their attention. We ladies LOVE that. Especially those of us who are really pretty dames. It's even more appealing when the guy interjects rude, aggressive comments in bad English and in a "dark tone" amongst his pirouettes. Now THAT, my friends, is irresistibly smokin hot. Oh! I swoon!
sanskrit Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 (edited) Seriously, OP approaching women in groups is very easy and you have a tailored line, "Hey ladies what's the occasion?" that always works. Approach only when it's obvious they are out socializing and not in the middle of business talk. If "no occasion," reply "Let's make one shall we!" Bachelorette - one of the few times buying a drink for a woman is a good idea, if not a drink "when is the happy day?" "who is the lucky guy?" "which one of you other ladies wants to catch the garter?" limitless conversation possibilities and they are likely all buzzed if not out and out drunk. Then you can ask the bachelorette playfully and openly which of your friends/bridesmaids doesn't have a date to the wedding yet? If they are drunk enough, she is always going to send you to the fun/wild one for laughs, and if you find that one attractive and vice versa, there ya go. Girl's night out - Another easy one, once more "what's the occasion?" Lots of rings says it's GNO. Ask them to be your wing crew and help you qualify some other women at the bar, "which one should I talk to?" Sometimes one will say, "well what's wrong with me?" and you reply, "nothing, I just assumed you were all taken?" then to the group "is ___ taken? do I have a shot? be honest my fragile male ego is at stake" Married women have single friends, often coming there to meet them in ten minutes. Another thing about married women is that they love polite, interesting, nonsexual attention from a man who doesn't just flee the minute he knows they are married. Often the "queen bee" of the group will be married and if you win her over, you gain tons of social value with the others. OK I know what you are thinking, "but what if I have my eye on a particular one and find another one unattractive?" You can't think this way when approaching groups of women and they can smell it on you and it will turn them off. Just have fun. Business groups - Don't ask what they do but assume improbable things, "You are all a Country Western band, which one plays the stand-up bass?" etc. Your imagination is the limit, and if they don't respond in kind with imaginative, witty responses, ditch em, they are either dull, dumb or rude, as whether they find you attractive at this point shouldn't matter in the display of social skills that all adults should possess to be tolerable company. That's enough for now, but you get the idea. Not rocket science. Moreover, there are 30,000 bars, restaurants and clubs in Manhattan. If you fail to wow a group or get tongue tied, consider it just practice, there is another group just down the block in another place. Edited May 10, 2011 by sanskrit
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 10, 2011 Author Posted May 10, 2011 Shaun-Dro, The more of your posts that I read, the more I wonder ... Do you dislike women as much as you seem to? Why are you pursuing women at all, when you have such a lot of unconcealed anger towards all of us? What in the world do you think ANY girl or woman would want with a man who feels that way? What do you believe you have to offer that would be of value? I am asking sincerely. I have plenty to offer of value, are you kidding me? I'm just coming at you guys from an honest standpoint. It has nothing to do with anger per se, but with the reality of how I view NY women, period. It's dissapointing. You can agree or disagree; it's your right, just as it is mine. I'm not saying I can't get a girl interested in me. Of course, I can choose any lame one in the midst of her daily activities. I'm talking ones that I'm interested in. They're either just not available or have this unbelievable notion of what and who a man should be that stops her from meeting strong, good men like me, among a few similar others. She really has no clue what a "real" man is! My older friend agrees with me on this too, even though he knows how to "seduce" them either way . Like I said in another thread: women has become corrupted by society and the social media. She's been given too much power, more than she can handle, and doesn't know what to do with it. But the one thing that has really hurt her in this realm is her inability to see a good man in front of her and take a chance. She rather be charmed by the evil ones, and then after getting hurt by them, hate all men after her poor selection. How logical .
vsmini Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Being 28, having good looks by most standards (since this seemed to be of interest to you in an earlier post Shaun) and living in NYC - I'm almost dying to meet up with this guy to see what this guy is talking about. Are these girls just being snobby b*tches to you when you talk to them? This unbelievable notion of what a man is and should be - I need examples - what are these women telling you a man should be? Now I'm actually curious to hear about the girls you are trying to approach.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 10, 2011 Author Posted May 10, 2011 Being 28, having good looks by most standards (since this seemed to be of interest to you in an earlier post Shaun) and living in NYC - I'm almost dying to meet up with this guy to see what this guy is talking about. Are these girls just being snobby b*tches to you when you talk to them? This unbelievable notion of what a man is and should be - I need examples - what are these women telling you a man should be? Now I'm actually curious to hear about the girls you are trying to approach. No, they're not being snobby bitches. I haven't had that experience. Just a bunch of excuses when it's unnecessary. If you want to go further into what I'm saying, just email me at [email protected] I will surely reply to you Vsmini.
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