Sweet_T Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 So...Im thinking of reaching out to him. I really need to talk. Closure or whatever, but I need to talk to him. He hasnt answered my calls in almost a wk and our last convo was awful. What should I do??!?!?!?!?!
Fufu Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Keep on to your NC. I donno about the other members, but I always believe that you gain true closure from yourself not from exes. And why do you want to even talk to a person who doesn't answer your phone = who will not put his time and effort to listen to you.
PegNosePete Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 I donno about the other members, but I always believe that you gain true closure from yourself not from exes. Yep exactly. And what is this "closure" thing anyway? If anyone can give me a decent definition of what it actually means, it will be obvious why you shouldn't try to get it from your ex.
Graceful Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 My vote is that the idea is horrible, and it sux. Don't do it. Go over to the Coping Forum. There's a thread there for posting instead of contacting your ex. Get it out of your system there. It's a great resource.
radiodarcy Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 i agree with everyone else. contacting him is a horrible idea. it's only going to make you feel ten times worse than you do now. and yes, it is possible to feel that bad. trust me -- i know. he'll either respond and it won't be what you want to hear; or he won't respond at all and it's going to continue to drive you even crazier. i would take Graceful's suggestion and post on the "post here instead of contacting your ex thread" instead.
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