smudge21 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Why is it that I can feel okay about everything and really feel like I'm making progress right up until Monday morning? What is it about the start of a new week that just makes me remember all the good times and make me miss her so much more then any other day. I'll be back to coping fine come tomorrow or at least mid week, but Monday just seems to be the day that says to me "okay, new week, end of the weekend, you haven't had any contact from her, so now here you go, time to think about the good times and miss her more than ever..."
hellon Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 I'm with you on that. Every Monday I wake up and it's ugggghh... It's the start of a new week, i.e. another week to make it through, and that's daunting. But think of it as the start of another week of progress...
happiness0421 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 I feel the same exact way, and I can't figure out why...I can have a nice weekend, sleep fine, no dreams about him, etc., but then I end up thinking about him way too much on Mondays. Maybe it is the whole "start of a new week" thing? Either way, it stinks. I just try to get through and keep myself busy!
240sxVert Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 i wake up every morning forgetting my ex left me.... and then it all comes to me and its like getting stabbed in the heart over and over again....
silvermane187 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Monday mornings are the worst for me because it means another week doing a job I don't enjoy. When I was with my ex I could lean on her for support when a bad case of the Monday's got me down. When she was gone my brain would still think of her as a way to cope, which only amde things worst. Make sense?
ilovedhim Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Lucky you it's only Monday. Besides a morning run I've been here most of the day But I agree the start of the week is worse. Maybe because we're busy during the weekend? I woke up thinking of him and couldn't get back to sleep. Can't get work done. Tomorrow will be better.
Author smudge21 Posted May 9, 2011 Author Posted May 9, 2011 Once again, good to see I'm not alone on here. I do promise that should I ever get into power, the weekends will start on Friday lunchtime and end Tuesday morning. That should sort those Monday blues out...
ccfan Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 In my case the worst days are fridays in the afternoon... when i imagine her getting out of work and her phone ringing with guys asking her out for drinks/clubbing and so on... actually mondays are a relief for me of the weekend mind drama.... either monday or fridays the same principle applies to heal: strong NC
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