Urban Crusader Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Good news from the front! In this forum we're always recommended to spend time with our friends, experience new things, exercise, everything that we should be doing anyways right? Well I finally got a little payoff! I was walking past her house as I normally do (we live in the same neighbourhood) to see her and her dog sitting outside playing some guitar. As I got closer to her house, her dog who absolutely loves me, springs up and runs after me. She starts chasing after him but he hopped up into my arms. Her facial expression looked like a mix of Zoolander, and someone who just saw manslaughter. She HAD to do it. Approach the guy she left for invlaid reasons and claim her dog. Acting casually I put on a warm smile and give the corny "Look what happend" speech. Dog in arms we carry on a little conversation. The entire time we talked she was looking at my newly toned body. After around 10 minutes of being mysterious and brief I decided to wrap it up. Right before leaving, I got a question. "Have you been working out lately?" YES. Yes I have. She gave a little giggle eyeing me over and said, "Is it okay if I call you later?" I Told her i'd be busy but maybe sometime next week. She looked a little suprised and said okay. Well about an hour later I got a call from her. She was crying very heavily and told me she wanted to work things out and she was horribly sorry for what she did. 5 months i've been waiting for this moment.. So much time wanting her back and thinking about her every day. 5 months. I shot her down. Told her that she had her chance to fix things but waited too long. I had moved on and there was nothing left she could do but live her life to the fullest because I was. Her crying intensified and she hung up. People every bit of information you get on this site is golden. In my case it worked. But by the time she had come around I moved on. So improve yourself and move on! Because even if your ex doesn't come back you'll love yourself for what improvements you've made. And the next person you meet will love it aswell!
Hopeless Girl Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Wow 5 months man! Ive been 1 month and its gettin better but I still hope that he comes back. Anyways, its great you shut her down and saw whats good for you. I hope it'll come to me as well and I know it will... question. how long was your relationship?
ramathorne Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Right now I feel like you are the luckiest man alive haha. Good for you man! Hitting the gym myself, I'll definitely be using your experience as motivation to keep going!
nyckidd Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 ahh this is great! what a great feeling to have finally moved on and simply deny her. Well done my friend, well done.
cali.man Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Wow,that rocks bro! Its been like two months since my gf/fiance broke up with me! Since then ive been going to the gym, hanging out with my buddies from college that i had lost, living life and doing new things ive never experinced! You must be solid emotionally i would have to say...we will all get their soon keep our heads up and minds busy in a positive way!
23go4 Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Wow that is very motivating. I already work out, but I plan on going to th gym 5 times a day to tone up my whole body. Maybe lose 10-15 pounds.
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