mr.goodguy Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 hey guys, Just wondering...she broke up with me about 8 months ago...I deleted her from facebook about 6 months ago. Anyways would it be acceptable to send her a friend invite ago? I'm over her, but she is cool to hang with. Just looking for opinions.
kandice Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 If she broke up with you, I don't think so. Has she talked to you since, or would this be your first time contacting each other?
Author mr.goodguy Posted May 10, 2011 Author Posted May 10, 2011 Well when we broke up she said she still wanted to hang out. I unfortunately jumped on that too soon and wanted to get together two weeks or so after. It looked needy. Anyways about 5 months later I asked her if she wanted to get together...she was busy. My gut instinct says don't add her...yeah I guess now that I write it out, I won't add her.
smudge21 Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 Life's too short to look back with regrets. If you really want to be a friend again and can handle being just that (think about that long and hard - seeing her dating others), then send her a request with a message, reminding her that she did want to be friends. If she accepts, fine (don't start messaging her like crazy, keep it friendly), if not, then fair enough. You've opened the door and it's up to her if she steps through it. I've contacted a few ex's and some have been nice and polite and we get along best we ever did, a few didn't. That's life.
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