noleaf Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 (i posted on here a little while ago a question wondering whether i should contact my ex - after originally planning not to, alcohol played a role in me changing my mind! ) when i contacted him, i didnt expect him to reply but he did. We we're just texting but it was good to hear from him again. We arranged to meet up as friends, no pressure, just to see each other and catch up. which would have been fine. Except for the fact that before we could meet up as friends, we ended up hooking up with each other over the weekend. We decided, were just going to see what happens. No pressure. I am seriously considering giving this relationship another chance. Do you guys think i'm being stupid? We split 3 months ago after two nights out we'd had together had ended in him drinking too much and creating dramas - which i had warned him i wouldnt put up with. Other than that, eveything had been good. I finished with him, but didnt really want to end things, i felt like i had to though as i had previously told him i wouldn't tolerate the dramas. He's told me that he really regrets what happened, etc. Which i know if predicatably what he would say...but i dont know if i'm just being stupidly blinded by love and wanting to believe him, or if there really might be a chance for us? advice please? Thanks! x x x
Leda Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 I agree with Sweet T! Sounds like you still have strong feelings for him, and like he is genuinely contrite, understands what the problem was, and willing to work on it. My advice would just be to stay very honest and clear about what you want and hope for from him. Don't settle for less, and don't hope he'll read your mind about anything. I hope it works out!!
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