neghitzbrah Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 (edited) Every night I go out, work, hang out with friends, I talk to girls whom I have mutual attraction for. I have to say, this is a lot of progress since I have been single a few months ago. I can now say that I have the confidence to go up to a girl I am genuinely attracted to... not much settling anymore, as I have done many times before. As this may seem like such a small step (the way I put it out to you guys) it took a lot of work to get to where I'm at. However, the problem stands in the fact that I cannot release my feelings of intimacy to a girl I am interested in and sharing mutual attraction with For example, perfectly nice girl who I have seen more than a few times when hanging out with my co-worker's friends. She is attracted to me, as it is blatantly obvious from body language, attention, etc. Plus her friend told me this. I show attraction toward her with the same, not as much though. But for some reason, I never go in for the kiss when I have the opportunity. It's not a fear of rejection (I know she likes me and is sexually attracted to me). I do this with multiple women in my life. But I see this as playing games. I attract, I connect with her, I flirt, then I pull back. I'm playing games and it frustrates me. Someone talk some sense into me, or at least punch me in the face. ::sigh:: I needed to get that out. Edited May 8, 2011 by neghitzbrah
Author neghitzbrah Posted May 8, 2011 Author Posted May 8, 2011 This might be true, but I am really stepping outside of my comfort zone in terms of taking risks. Maybe it'll take time.
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