swimmahboy88 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 i have just recently started a long-distance relationship. the person im dating lives about 3-3 1/2 miles away from me by car. when i left them, i was torn up; i could not stop crying. we could see each other once or twice a month or less sometimes. its hard because we are still in high school, and cant just go to each other every weekend. does anyone have any advice on how to make it easier, and if the distance is too much for it to work?
TaraMaiden Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 three and a half miles away?? is that right? You can walk that in under a half hour....!
Phoenix01 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I have to agree with TaraMaiden. 3,5 miles is not an LDR. check this tread out to see what it is really like: http://www.nosalty.hu/citromos_suti_recept_2731 About your question, it only depends on you and your girlfriend if the distance is too much. according to the members of this site it is bearable. And don't worry, in the begining of a relationship everyone is insecure
Author swimmahboy88 Posted May 8, 2011 Author Posted May 8, 2011 im sorry! i meant to type 3 to 3 1/2 hours!!
HeavenOrHell Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 That link goes to an Hungarian cookery site. ?? I have to agree with TaraMaiden. 3,5 miles is not an LDR. check this tread out to see what it is really like: http://www.nosalty.hu/citromos_suti_recept_2731 About your question, it only depends on you and your girlfriend if the distance is too much. according to the members of this site it is bearable. And don't worry, in the begining of a relationship everyone is insecure
HeavenOrHell Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I see my partner about every 7 weeks, been together a year and so far it is working, I don't miss him too much as we have a lot of daily contact, I've had phases where I've felt depressed about the distance/missing him, but I don't anymore, I've got used to the distance and he makes me happy. Have as much contact as you can, make time for each other, share as much as you can with each other, and just take things day by day. It's good to have an end in sight as well if you want a future with this person, a goal to work towards, an end to the distance. Good luck! i have just recently started a long-distance relationship. the person im dating lives about 3-3 1/2 miles away from me by car. when i left them, i was torn up; i could not stop crying. we could see each other once or twice a month or less sometimes. its hard because we are still in high school, and cant just go to each other every weekend. does anyone have any advice on how to make it easier, and if the distance is too much for it to work?
Phoenix01 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 Hehhh Ups, sorry XD appereantly my crtl+ V didn't function XD
creighton0123 Posted May 10, 2011 Posted May 10, 2011 I'm going to play the pessimist and ask you what's going to happen after high school. Are you both planning the same thing? Same college or different? Move close together and both go into the workforce or one go to a nearby college? One or both go into the military? You will be sad. It's expected. You will miss having the option of seeing him when you want. You kind of get used to it. The important and mature thing is to figure out what you both want and what your plans/options are.
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