Brokenheartedx345 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 We dated 5 months and then he dumped me becasue things weren't working out I guess. But im still so in love with him. We have talked everyday since we broke up. And we had sex... Like 3 times since we broke up. He says were f buddies but I know he still cares. I told him I got asked out on a date and he asked by who. When I said Zachary he asked which one and when I gave him that to he said go for it and stopped texting me. I don't know what his deal is because he seems so determined not to date again. I mean I really care. Just what do I do next? He doesn't want me it seems like. Or all he cares about is screwing me. So what do I do next?!? I would do anything.
Professor X Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 If you want him back than you need to make him jealous and by sleeping with him, you're just showing him he can get what he want, whenever he wants, with you. I suggest you stop screwing around with him cause that won't get you anywhere; I would even go as far as go NC with him - if you see he's chasing you, than give him some crumbs from time to time, if he doesn't, than you know it's over for sure. Regardless, you should realize that your actions are like a double edged sword for you: while you get to be screwed by him (you enjoy it cause you're emotionally attached to him) you also get your hopes to high with each act, which ironically enough drive you to the opposite goal you're trying to achieve. Oh and, if you didn't understand what I wrote: he doesn't care about you, all he cares about is screwing you.
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