sonic3 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 After feeling great last week achieving 6 weeks no contact, she texted me asking about a bill (which I previously changed the billing address so it would be sent to her) Although she claims she didn't get it. It was only an exchange of two blunt text messages, she asked the cost of the bill, I simply wrote back "£xx", but I feel like it's set me back. I think it's the fact that it comes across that she really doesn't care, in 2 months all she has contacted me about is sorting out a bill. I know I broke things off with her, but I'm convinced that if I didn't she would have. After months of withdrawing affection, criticising the way I dress, my interests, career, raising arguments about our future etc, wanting space and all the other crap. The final straw was wen she told me if I continued my education for a year, she couldn't see us working. I flipped, ended it and got my stuff the next day, deleted her from Facebook etc... She was pissed off, and went on and on about how bad she felt that I humiliated her but I don't believe she gave me much choice, I'd be treated like a doormat for months prior to this. I ended up apologising for the Facebook stunt and then we spent a month trying to sort things out, well I spent a month offering to talk, trying to to work things out but I got the impression she wasn't interested - this was all through texts, she was "too busy" to meet me in person. So I just told her to forget it. The strange thing is, I feel rejected in all of this, it seems like she lost interest and now she couldn't care less. On top of that, she blamed everything on me, then starting telling my friends lies about why I broke things off and made herself out to be the victim in all of this.
Sweet_T Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I feel you. My ex sent me an email saying thanks to an email I sent him. That alone set me back, and it was simply "Thanks".
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