Shaun-Dro Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 MEAN!! That's right. This is what I think will definitely get their attention. Feel free to dispute it if you want, but I went into Target today to get a few things for the house. I saw a customer chatting up this cute girl and I could tell she didn't wanna be bothered. He was friendly and all but it did nothing for her, as she kept her back to him the whole time. Enter me. I walked over to that same girl. Saw her up close. I'm guessing she's about 20-21, young. She was doing shopback or what ever you call it when the workers gather misplaced items and throw them into the cart. I asked her where the scales are at, looking her straight in the eyes, with no smiling or anything remotely flirtatious. She looked at me stunned. And then tried hard to think, putting her hand to her neck, clearing her throat. I said, "come on, I dont got all day, you work here don't you?" and she stuttered a little bit, looked around, and then started rambling about the scales might be down this aisle, or maybe that aisle, or maybe that aisle, and so on. She had no clear-cut answer for me! I then said "look, ms., hurry and find out where the scales are already." in a darker voice, and that's when she finally got help. Damn, that felt good, because later on, when I had to pass her again, I totally ignored her and she couldn't get her eyes off of me, nor was she able to fully concentrate on her task. I found this extremely interesting. And when I left the store, I kept up the attitude and every good-looking woman in sight had their eyes on me in a sort of curious, fascinated way. Hmm...I'm starting to wonder .
DreamerGirl27 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 MEAN!! That's right. This is what I think will definitely get their attention. Feel free to dispute it if you want, but I went into Target today to get a few things for the house. I saw a customer chatting up this cute girl and I could tell she didn't wanna be bothered. He was friendly and all but it did nothing for her, as she kept her back to him the whole time. Enter me. I walked over to that same girl. Saw her up close. I'm guessing she's about 20-21, young. She was doing shopback or what ever you call it when the workers gather misplaced items and throw them into the cart. I asked her where the scales are at, looking her straight in the eyes, with no smiling or anything remotely flirtatious. She looked at me stunned. And then tried hard to think, putting her hand to her neck, clearing her throat. I said, "come on, I dont got all day, you work here don't you?" and she stuttered a little bit, looked around, and then started rambling about the scales might be down this aisle, or maybe that aisle, or maybe that aisle, and so on. She had no clear-cut answer for me! I then said "look, ms., hurry and find out where the scales are already." in a darker voice, and that's when she finally got help. Damn, that felt good, because later on, when I had to pass her again, I totally ignored her and she couldn't get her eyes off of me, nor was she able to fully concentrate on her task. I found this extremely interesting. And when I left the store, I kept up the attitude and every good-looking woman in sight had their eyes on me in a sort of curious, fascinated way. Hmm...I'm starting to wonder . Um...she was probably concerned she was gonna get complained on and lose her job. That would not work on me, buddy.
musemaj11 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 They all probably thought "who the hell is this jerkoff?"
thatdog Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 They all probably thought "who the hell is this jerkoff?" Agreed. But you are also kinda right. What you did was just being a jerk though. Being a little haughty = good. being and Arse = Bad. Especially when you are talking to someone in customer service. You are just ruining their day and pissing them off. What you should do is treat them like they aren't one of the most beautiful girls in the room. But if this is the way you treat regular people then you don't deserve to have a woman.
CambridgeGirl Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 She sounds a young, a woman would have told you where to stick your scales, pretty or not. What a pointless thread. Dismissed.
MrNate Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 Why so mean? I was feelin it until you went too far. I think it would've worked 500% better if you would've kept that serious face and then cracked a funny joke like, "I'm self conscious about my thighs". Then you would've been golden. Why ruin the moment? Pretty girls are people too.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I doubt she was interested in you, she would've just been acting the way she was acting because she would've been shocked at how you were treating her.
Flgirl44 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I know im not adding anything but seriously I could laugh for days. She was looking at you wondering why you were being so abrasive probably. haha good stuff
abbeylouwho Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 Yes, I agree. I think she was most definitely looking at you trying to figure out what was wrong with you. And if you were to go back and actually ask her out she would either laugh in your face or slap you in the face. Whatever works.
Kamille Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 From now on, if a guy is mean to me, I'll assume he's flirting . I don't see why I would spend time disputing your reality. Your life is yours to live. So, the solution is simple: go forth and be mean and report back on how much your love life has improved. Good luck!
Nexus One Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I don't think you accomplished there what you think you accomplished.
mo mo Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 I don't think you accomplished there what you think you accomplished. Yea seriously. Did he get her number? Are they going out on a date? He accomplished being a prick, that's about it.
Illiandra Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 They had their eyes on you because they were thinking who the hell does the guy think he is? Ive had guys flirt with me food shopping and just shopping in general, and let being rude, mean is not a good way to pick up a chick
Survivor12 Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 All I can say is that I wish all a******s acted as blatantly obnoxious so we'd have no reason to waste time having to figure them out!
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 This is golden! So, a person being attractive somehow warrants and justifies rude, obnoxious and super ignorant behavior? Were you raised by feral dogs in the junkyard?
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 So, do you perceive Target to be your own personal happy hunting ground? That's ... unusual.
thatdog Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 So, a person being attractive somehow warrants and justifies rude, obnoxious and super ignorant behavior? I have to admit that sometimes I feel like it does. I don't aim to be rude to beautiful people but I see them treated so well just because of their looks I often what to mistreat them just so they see how it is for normal people. I wouldn't do what OP did but If I am in a situation where I have to serve a person first and don;t know which one is due, I always leave the attractive ones waiting. I wouldn't go out of my way to be obnoxious though cos I would never treat anyone that way (unless they were being a **** like the OP )
youaretheone Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 When you are direct and tease her with intelligent humor, instead of complimenting her on her looks like 90 % of guys do, you are golden. When you are direct and tease her like a child until she gets upset or make rude comments without smiling, then you are disrespectful and you are destined to be rejected by not only pretty ones but all the women.
Darren Taylor Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 OP hasn't been back. Hmmm. Anyway, the key is to treat the hot women just like you would any other woman. Be courteous, but don't compliment them. They're no different than any average looking woman. The eat, ****, swallow(well...maybe), and make mistakes. They're only human.
PhillyDude Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 She sounds a young, a woman would have told you where to stick your scales, pretty or not. What a pointless thread. Dismissed. It is pointless because it's not like she ran out the store to give him her number. So the story has no ending which makes it POINTLESS-lol
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 OP hasn't been back. Hmmm. Anyway, the key is to treat the hot women just like you would any other woman. Be courteous, but don't compliment them. They're no different than any average looking woman. The eat, ****, swallow(well...maybe), and make mistakes. They're only human. This will work for about half of the female population. The rest of them would react positively to the behavior displayed in the OP.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 Another thing to consider is that women react differently, in different cultures. This kind of behavior would be looked on positively for an American woman, but someone who's from a foreign country would react negatively, and even abrasively, to the same behavior. It makes a good point for going foreign, if you don't want to become a bad guy.
Darren Taylor Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 This will work for about half of the female population. The rest of them would react positively to the behavior displayed in the OP. And are those women worth being with? The ones that respond positively have emotional issues, likely daddy issues.
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