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Concerned about having sex with my new girlfriend


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Hey all. Long story short; I've been with one girl who I dated for a couple years. I wasn't really attracted to her all that much, it was kind of a convenience thing mixed with the fact that we got along okay. Obviously, we ended up splitting.

 

 

I am now 22 and am moving slowly but steady with a new girlfriend who I am absolutely awe-struck by. Not just her personality, sense of humor, ambitions, etc., but her looks. She is drop-dead gorgeous and has an extremely toned and tight body. The, uh, opposite of my ex.

 

 

Problem: I am going to go ahead and presume we will have sex sooner than later. We currently do some heavy making out and genital rubbing through clothing, but we'll get there eventually. I have no problem waiting, but when the time does come, I am worried that I will last like 2 seconds because A) I haven't had sex in almost 6 months now and B) She is freaking hot. Like, I didn't know I could get a girl like that, hot :p

 

 

Not obviously excepted fool-proof advice, and am more or less just venting. Thanks for reading.

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This is what you do...

 

You probably will last 2 seconds. So you could masterbate before you think you will have sex with her (she might give you a clue that day)

 

Or when you actually have sex with her, when you orgasm, you dont make a noise, pull out, and go down on her. You might get aroused again after doing that for a while, you can hit it again after you go down. Then you'll look like a dynamo. Actually if she sees you orgasm, and then you go down on her, you'll look like a dynamo anyway, just take care of her afterwards. That first time, you probably be so aroused that you will have some steam left after you orgasm anyway.

 

And for gods sake, dont fall in love with her so fast. Let her tell you she loves you first before you get completely emotionally invested, so you dont come back here talking about she dumped you, and you think you were a rebound.

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Don't worry.

 

My bf lasted less than 3 minutes the first time and I thought it was cute. He was ready to go again after about 10 minutes recovery time and did it twice more in the span of an hour, he didn't last much longer even the third time. Fifth time that night was around 12 minutes though - I was flattered :p

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