JasonRules Posted May 9, 2011 Posted May 9, 2011 Hi JasonRules, Have you ever had an Ex Come back, even when they said "i love you but im not in love with you anymore?" Thanks GS One of my exes from 4 years ago, I was madly in love with. We were living together and I thought I was going to marry this girl. She broke up with me and moved out after a 1 year and 3 month relationship. I was made all the wrong moves chasing after her, begging, pleading etc. Eventually, she looked me straight in my eyes and told me "I do not love you anymore". I was devastated, but I stopped chasing her. I went into NC for almost 6 months, but she eventually contacted me again to my surprise. From 6 months out we had LC. Basically, I would do something nice for her (ex. take her out to dinner or meet up for coffee) and then just disappear for 1-3 months. This was going on for almost 1.5 years. I never brought up getting back with her or anything like that. Eventually, just through contact she fell in love with me again, but I had checked out by then totally. I saw her like a sister. I then met another girl and was in a relationship with her when my ex started texting me a lot, sending me photos, and asking me out to dinner, or to take her for a motorcycle ride etc. to the point where my (now ex) girlfriend was getting very pissed. Eventually I told her I couldn't hang out with her anymore because I was in a relationship with someone else. She was pretty upset and told me that she loves me and that she always thought we would end up together (ie. marriage). I told her that she ended things almost 4 years ago and that things are different now. Currently she's dating some bartender, but still text me asking if I was with anyone, which I'm not. Hindsight is always 20/20 and I'm sure she regrets it, but there is nothing I can do for her. I don't wish her bad, but I've moved on. The thing is we care for our exes up until the next "best" thing comes around. Once we experience the magic of meeting someone we're truly compatible with, we will forget about our exes overnight.
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