onTEbus Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 my partner of 2 and a half years kissed another guy the other night when she went out drinking with her mates, not just 1 thow, 4 or 5. she told me the day after through a txt coz we dnt live together we stay bout 90mins away from each other. she sez it was nufing more than jus a kiss each time! she has never done this before, and said she felt insecure and alwaes complaining bout being lonely, she sed she jus wanted to feel loved coz im not there much. but wat makes it worst is that i was moving to b with her this munth so we culd fully start our life together. we even talked about it and we hav been seeing each other since the end ov high school. Im not the saint either thow, a year into our relationship i slept with my ex, we broke up for 2weeks then got bak together and have been together ever since but i regret duin that everyday i wake up:( and now im hurting:( we love each other so much and she always tells me how much ov a wonderfull boyfreind i am... i dnt want to lose her, she'z my best freind:love: how do we get past this?
Irishlove Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 You forgive her and stay fully commited to only her when you move in. Like you said...You were no saint so you can NOT condemn her. Nor do you need to tell her you were with someone else. That's just stupid on your part. ( don't preach) Forgive and forget...
Professor X Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 You're complaining because she kissed 5 men? after you've slept with someone??? You guys fit to one another, you love each other so much you go show others exactly how. Like Irishlove said, you can't do anything, suck it up and move on with whatever plans you got for your life together. I'm sorry that you are hurt, but you've hurt her in a much harsher way. Damn, some people are such hypocrites.
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