usmcmetal06 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 (edited) I've been through this in my head 100 times. I was "seeing" a girl for about two months and things were going great. We talked on the phone for hours, she would call me up and we would hang out at her place all night or go out. She did tell me from the get-go, however, that she worked at a hospital and was going to school for nursing, so things were only going to get busier for her. While seeing each other she would tell me how she showed her family and co-workers pictures of me and would also talk about me. We never had sex during that time, however, we did come close. It was actually me who said, "I like you and respect you, and do not think we should have sex so soon". When we kissed, It was like nothing I have ever felt before; it was perfect in every aspect of the word. She even told me she loved how I kissed her. A part of me feels as though I have fallen for her. I respect her so much and would never do anything to hurt her. A month has passed with very little communication. I wrote her a couple weeks ago, basically telling her how I felt about her and asked, why it was our communication dwindled. She wrote back telling me school was getting very difficult and that finals were approaching and she didn't have time for a relationship nor wanted to think about it. Now, I told my sister-in-law the situation and she basically told me that she (the girl) was just letting me down easy. After that discussion about a couple weeks later she messages me out of the blue on facebook saying, "Hey stranger how are you?" We exchanged messages for a bit and I gave her some positive feedback for getting through school and all, and said nothing about "us" to try and keep it short and sweet. I just can't imagine with how good of a time we had together she would just loose interest. I've been very patient with her and been giving her the space she needs. Part of me wants to spill my guts and tell her everything as far as how I feel about her. I don't know what to do. If I say something I'm afraid I'm gonna make it worse and scare her off. If I wait any longer I feel as though my chances are lessened day by day. I believe that I still have a chance regardless of what my sister-in-law told me. This isn't your typical girl, she knows what she wants, and tells it like it is. Any PROFESSIONAL advice would be GREATLY appreciated;) and thank you for reading. Brian Edited May 7, 2011 by usmcmetal06
Survivor12 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 "Any PROFESSIONAL advice would be GREATLY appreciated;) and thank you for reading." If you are seeking "professional" advice, why are you posting on this forum?
vsmini Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Here is my professional advice This isn't your typical girl, she knows what she wants, and tells it like it is. If she was really into you then you would know it and wouldn't be guessing around. It doesn't sound like she's particularly nuts about you. You can try asking her out again but it doesn't sound like she's all that interested.
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