brightmoon2568 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 ok heres my story....i have been with my bf for 11yrs now...we dont live together but he does live in the apt right next to mine. The last few years we had grown apart, which is both out faults, mine due to tragic stituations ..him well dont know really...last december i did a lot of thinking and decided to make things better. Little did i know what was to happen. On Dec 12 2010...i got a late call from a friend ...telling me my bf was on a dating site and she didnt recognize him at first and had a chat with him on the site...she asked him what he was looking for on the site and he said if i find someone and it turns into something special that would be great ...if i only find friendship that good too...she asked him if he had a girlfriend /wife..he said no..(hmmm that hurt)...she then started to look tho his pics and said that he looked familiar ...he named of his work and she said no...then she went on my facebook page and saw his picture on there..at that point she busted him on it..and of course he did a song and dance ...oh you got the wrong guy...i get mistaken all the time etc etc even denied knowing my name. But thats not the worst of it...10mins prior to his chat with her...he and i had sex!! I was of course shattered....i texted him about the call and told him we needed to talk the next day...so the next night ..i confronted him about it..have to say was not a great chat...but in the end told him i loved him and didnt want to lose him..and he said after a long pause that he didnt want to lose me either...so we agree that would work on the realtionship. So now its 5.6.11 and i live with not trusting him everyday..being suspicious about everything....i told him that i used to trust him completly and want to again..he said that i could...i asked him if he was doing anything with any girls ..he said no...i asked him is he 100% commited to this relationship ...he said yes 100%...he promised not to break my heart again...and has told me he loves with all his heart... Do i believe all that ...not 100% no....do i believe in him no....and it doesnt help matters that i seem to be doing most of the work on this then him....tho will say..after a talk he is trying a tad more...but there are many days when it so frustrating....days when i think we are getting on solid ground again and then he does something or doesnt do something and knocks me to my faulty ground again... There are things he does that could be very suspicious but ill write of those at another time... Thanks for reading my rant ...open to listen to anyone thoughts
miss jennifer Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 i'm not one for playing stupid games, but i've had something like this before. i made a fake profile on myspace (this was years ago) and chatted him up on that. thankfully, mine didn't take the bait.. but it's always an idea
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