supaflyz Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Here's the story. I knew this girl through a friend awhile back in school. We're friends on facebook. I never saw her in person after I got out of school, so we started talking on fb. She gave me her number. We just texted back and forth for about 3 weeks. She texted back right away most of the time. She seems to flirt on text. However, she never initiate the text except one time. She does initiate conversation online though. One time she didnt reply to my text but yet said hi later on fb. I didn't want to be clingy, so I texted her yesterday. It was a week since I texted her. Well she didnt reply so I texted her again. She told me she was busy studying because she had an exam tomorrow, and ask what I was doing. I told her to disregard the first text earlier because I didn't want to seem like a fool. The text was kind of stupid. I told her I was trying to text someone else, and was sorry to bother her. I told her to study on. Well today I texted her asking did she beast the exam. SHe didnt text back. I saw her on fb and told her hey. She did talk. However, I told her I texted her earlier. She told me to hold on and went to check her phone. Shes like oh yeah that text. She also said she was really tired. Should I give her a call? I don't want to annoy her or anything. Did I mess up about telling her I was texting someone else instead. She didn't seem happy today while we were talking. I know its hard to read through text instead of talking on the phone. I'm I over analyzing this.
Gapinthesidewalk Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 (edited) Trust me man. I've been down this road and it's not one that you want to go down. First off, reading emotion through text is difficult as you've already said. Basically anything can happen. I would say try the call, but give it a bit. I know when I went through a similar situation the call didn't help, but maybe it will for you. Who knows? Maybe things will work out for you and you just happen to be overanalyzing this situation. But if you want my opinion, girls are able to to back down easier through this way if they are not interested. I'd say just move forward. Edited May 7, 2011 by Gapinthesidewalk
Author supaflyz Posted May 7, 2011 Author Posted May 7, 2011 I mean just last time she was mentioning that she was near my house. I ask her why she didnt call me. She just said that she was really tired and just bought some food and went home to sleep. Yeah I think I'm just going to move forward. Hard to let it go but oh well.
HombreSincero Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 You've been communicating back and forth for a while. Why not ask her out for something simple, a meal, hanging out, playing a sport.
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