broken1026 Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 Here is my story.. I got married 2 my high school sweet heart when I was 18 in 2005 the same year he joined the army we were happy ! I got home sick every once in a while and lef him he did not like that so in 2009 he said if u leave again give me ur ring so I did! He gave me the divorce papers I was so hurt but I signed them anyway! We got a divorce when I found out I was pregnant with our 3rd child I was goin to get an abortion then I found out there were 2 ! I was pregnant with twins I thought he would be happy and that would save us but it didn't he lef me! The in 2010 he came to the birth of the twins and said he wanted to work things out jus 1 last time! Long stry short we tryd and he said he didn't love me like he used to he wanted me gone and it was over so I lef on jan 6th 2011 even tho I was gone I called him and told him how much I still loved him and he jus didn't want to here it so I found out from my old neibor that he had a live in girl friend I told him that I didn't care and that I still loved his so I found out who she was and she said she lives with him they are married now and hav a child on the way we have 4 kids and I have thought about killing myself I can't live without him he was my 1st love the only man I ever loved and now another women has his heart how could he jus get married how could he jus not love me anymore he even said I don't love u don't call me I have a new life leave me alone I only want to talk 2 my kids not u! What do I do we were 2gether for 10 years! I have no idea how to even start over! I need help! .. PS sorry for the misspelld words I'm on my phone!! Thanx every1
willowthewisp Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Please do not hurt yourself, you can't see it now but a man who would treat you like that is not worth it. Your children need you! As for the other women, she must be nuts to marry this guy, think about it, if you meet a man now and he had left his wife and 4 children because she was homesick and went home on visits, would you not be running for the hills? Now apply that thought to yourself...you will see once you get through the pain and betrayal and hurt that you are better off without him.
Soxfaninfl Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 Please don't take your life. I felt the same way when my stbx told me that she didn't love me anymore and wanted a divorce. We were together for 13 years and married for 11. Your children need you just as much as my 7 year old son needs me. Your children would be devasted if you took your own life because of a man that doesn't love you anymore. Your children will resent him for what he has done. You need to be strong for your children and continue to show them love. Don't speak badly about their father as that will make the feel worse even though he is a piece of s&@#!
TheBadOne Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 You are only 25, you have your whole life ahead of you. You will meet someone who will treat you and your kids so much better than your X. You will soon look back at this and say, what was I thinking. Keep busy, I'm sure you already are with the twins, and let love find you. It won't be hard and it won't take long, you'll see.
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