frenchmanfl Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 Hey everyone, I wish I could understand why my wife says she doesn't want to talk about divorce right now ? Why is that ? I mean if I have been such a bad husband why not just get the ball rolling to her ultimate freedom. Anyway, I am not going to wait any longer. I want to file, but I don't have the money right now to afford this heavy expense, especially when I plan on making this completely painless in terms of asset division. The ONLY thing I will fight for tooth and nail is my son but I do not believe she is going to fight me on this. Right now in particular. Does anyone have experience going through on line divorce DIY sites ? or how does one go about getting a divorce through mediation process off the ground. Lawyers are just not necessary, as I have no intention of making this a difficult process. Any advice would be welcomed. I have not completely thrown in the towel because I still love my wife and would love to give my son his family instead of the separate existence he has to live. However, as my wife keeps saying " I am not talking about divorce right now " I want to take control of things and tell her " you are not in complete control of things ". Right now she sees me as a fall back position and I will not deal with that. This afternoon she sent me an e-mail ( because thank God it we are this close to having the house we were supposed to buy, fall apart without my having to do anything ) saying " if we don't get the house, you should stay another month in the rental house until we figure out what we are going to do " WTF ??? Why should I wait. There is nothing to think about...I am moving out and you are doing whatever you want. I old her OK but I am going to call her one day and say " you can move back to the house...I have moved out " This is not vengeance it's just me expressing the fact that she does not control everything. Anyway, if anyone can give me advice on how to proceed with a divorce given a shortage of funds, I would appreciate the feedback. I plan on being very cool about this but I do need to start thinking about this and I want her to know, very soon, that I am not going to sit around and wait. Thank you everyone.
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