guys - is getting sex regularly the biggest motivation to enter a relationship

[allsexprofile]

because you feel that getting casual sex, FWB's, casual relationships with women is not that easy and requires lot of effort.

 

so you think in order to get sexual intimacy on a regular basis conveniently, its better to commit to a woman.

 

is this true OR is sex w/o strings, FWB's, casual relationships, having **** buddies, on a regular basis never a problem for most men?

[Ross MwcFan]

It probably is the biggest motivation yes.

 

If you think about it what would guys most rather have, a **** buddy, or a sexless relationship? I think most guys would rather have the **** buddy, I know I would.

 

Would most guys choose a **** buddy over a relaionship which includes sex? Dunno really, guess it depends on the guy and what stage they're in in their life.

[Andy_K]

Yes, regular sex is probably the single biggest reason to get into a relationship. That, and I don't want whoever I'm sleeping with to be sleeping with other guys. Not the only reason, but a major motivating factor.

[GoodOnPaper]

Yes. I knew from day 1 that I was too nerdy to attract many women. In fact, I was never able to attract any women for casual sex or a FWB arrangement. Therefore, going for relationships was my only route to sex and companionship. The thing that can go wrong with this approach, though, is that getting the relationship becomes an accomplishment. Finding who I wanted and could fall in love with became secondary to pushing for a relationship with anyone reasonably attractive who showed the slightest bit of interest.

[Jynxx]

It's the biggest, but obviously not the only motivation.

 

I think it's actually more a motivation for girls. That is the sex and the monogamy. When you're having a good time with a girl, sleeping together and you give her the night of her life she will almost always want to put a label on it, and ask if you two are together. You will then agree, and she will be happy through the roof thinking more nights like that await her.

 

At least that's my experience.