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Would you take back an ex that jumped into a rebound relationship after 2-4 weeks


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of breaking up?

 

- Background story

 

We were together for 3 years (throughout highschool) but right when it ended she just broke up with me before the summer started and started dating a new older guy (21) with a car, a lot of money and free time for her. fast forward 10 months it turns out he traffics drugs and got arrested along with my ex's girl best friend who always tried to break us up and manipulated her. I always thought the grass was greener on the other side because he gave her everything she wanted but I guess it really isn't because now hes on house arrest with the probability of doing jail time. My real question is that what do I do if she ever comes back? do I kick her on the curb like she did with me, or do I take her back? It's not like she suddenly figured out how great of a guy I really am and just how much she truly loves me its more like she needs a boyfriend right? I'm having mixed thoughts..

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of breaking up?

 

- Background story

 

We were together for 3 years (throughout highschool) but right when it ended she just broke up with me before the summer started and started dating a new older guy (21) with a car, a lot of money and free time for her. fast forward 10 months it turns out he traffics drugs and got arrested along with my ex's girl best friend who always tried to break us up and manipulated her. I always thought the grass was greener on the other side because he gave her everything she wanted but I guess it really isn't because now hes on house arrest with the probability of doing jail time. My real question is that what do I do if she ever comes back? do I kick her on the curb like she did with me, or do I take her back? It's not like she suddenly figured out how great of a guy I really am and just how much she truly loves me its more like she needs a boyfriend right? I'm having mixed thoughts..

 

 

Wait till the chickens have the eggs and then you can think about how you're going to make the omelette. In the meantime, stick to NC.

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And dont put all your eggs in one basket. haha

 

I had to throw that in there :laugh:

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Had been with ex for 6 months before i broke up with him (He slept with his ex,and confessed to me)

then he found a new one within one month.

Does his new relationship count as rebound?

he calls me every 10-odd days

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