wreckedhero Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 How do you do it? There must be a way of convincing her via a text. No contact is killing me and its only been 36 hours.
MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 How do you do it? There must be a way of convincing her via a text. No contact is killing me and its only been 36 hours. well you're going to need to give her a lot more time than that or you'll convince her how to NOT come back. please take it form me i made the huge mistake of begging and not giving space and he went from being confused to now hating me
Author wreckedhero Posted May 6, 2011 Author Posted May 6, 2011 How long should I wait to text her then or do I wait for her to text me and how long should I wait before abandoning all hope?
MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 Do not text her at all..no matter what...if she texts you then you need to decide if you want to reply. did she break up with you? if so why? what did she say? no matter what do not text her. everytime you want to, grab a paper and write the text on a paper instead and in a few days or weeks you will be so glad you didnt text anyof that. if she texts you then wait a while to think. then reply something short you dont have to lose hope now just realize you do need to leave her alone for now
TheLoneSock Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 One does not bring an ex back. The ex must come back on their own, or not at all.
Author wreckedhero Posted May 6, 2011 Author Posted May 6, 2011 She ended it a couple of weeks back. I havent begged her to come back and I was quite nasty to her saying she had lead me on and yes name calling but I apologised for that. She said that there was a chance we could get back together but that she needed to sort her head out and that we needed time apart. I then texted her a couple of days later telling her I missed her. I then gave her an ultimatum the following day, saying she either wants me or she doesnt. She replied that if I kept on texting her there would be no chance for us. I then stupidly asked her out for a drink. She did not reply and I have not texted her since. Just wish I knew what she was thinking and what should I do now? Just sit her and twiddle my thumbs? It's the hope that's killing me but I am also worried that I could be her second choice and that she is currently seeing someone else and is waiting to see whether it works out. We had been seeing each other less and less before the break up and she had become far more colder with me.
ramathorne Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 You have to calm down. I know it is extremely hard to think about yourself right now, but you have to give her what she needs, and she needs time to think. If you want any chance at all with her you have to give her that. Don't contact her. Let her contact you. Post any thoughts on this forum, or talk to a friend or family member about it. I know that before you would go to her with your problems, I was the same with my ex (3YR RS ended one month ago). When I started posting my thoughts and fears on this board, I started to feel much more in control of myself. There are always people here to listen, and often you'll simply feel much better just after writing your thoughts down.
Art_Critic Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 One thing for sure is that 36 hrs isn't enough time for her to miss you.. You have to give her time to do that.. months.. not hrs... and it has to be strict NC
Fufu Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 You may wish to read the following threads. 10 Truths You Need to Accept about Breaking Up http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t276219/ How Do You Heal A Broken Heart http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t276454/
0hpenelope Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 How do you do it? There must be a way of convincing her via a text. No contact is killing me and its only been 36 hours. Step 1: Let the ex go.
Fufu Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Whoa if breaking up is so..... simple and can solve by a text. I think this sub forum will not be created.
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