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GUYS; why does my coworker ignore me when we are in public setting?


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Why does my coworker treat me really different? At work, we are always flirting, playing around, he's always touching me somehow. With my hair, my stuff etc. He's sooo freakin hot. I like him and all but when we all go out to bars, he ignores me. He has nothing to say but yet at work, we talk all the time. I told one of our friends that I like him and he said that its okay to like him but to leave it at that AND to try to stop liking him soon. My coworker might like someone else but all I wanna know is why does he ignore me when we go out but when at work, its wayyyyyy diferent. GUYS HELP! BE HONEST!!!

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all I wanna know is why does he ignore me when we go out but when at work, its wayyyyyy diferent. GUYS HELP! BE HONEST!!!

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he said that its okay to like him but to leave it at that AND to try to stop liking him soon.

 

He doesn't want others to get the wrong ideas of you and him, and as long as he got that message to you, neither should you.

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Its hard not to like him like that. He's such a cutie pie at work. We are sooooo playful, flirty, and I catch him looking at me. We both stare at each other. Ugh. Sometimes I hate being a girl. Having feelings suck..

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There are certain women we can flirt with just for flirting sake and they get it. There are other women who take it far too seriously. You may be the type who takes it too seriously and he sees it and is trying to cool your jets.

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